sophiestic Posted October 21, 2015 Posted October 21, 2015 ...So here is the story: We met in the summer on the ship to an island. He is a doctor who lives in NY and I live in Athens, Greece. (He is also greek) He is coming to Athens at Christmas and we are going to meet. How can I make myself clear and start at a friendly level and talk about crazy exes/laugh together just like with my friends? ...However there is a possibility for us to flirt and fall in love. I don't mind him talking about his exes. I want us to get to know each other better and start smoothly as friends. There is an ocean between us, so there can't be anything romantic/erotic, right?? 1
Ami1uwant Posted October 22, 2015 Posted October 22, 2015 Just talk. I'm assuming both of you are mid 30s. In talking about your past it's perfectly fine to mention past relationships..just don't get into the details. 1
mystikmind2005 Posted October 22, 2015 Posted October 22, 2015 Well, i think it is fairly clear you are hoping to be romanced, seduced, nothing wrong with that, don't let fear and caution spoil it, that's my advice 1
Qboro90 Posted October 22, 2015 Posted October 22, 2015 Why do you want to talk about crazy ex's or past relationships with this guy in the first place? That's not something I would want to delve into early on in seeing someone. Especially if this is his first visit in months and you're excited to see him, the last thing he's gonna want to hear about it the last nutjob you dated or your time with other men. There are plenty of other topics you can discuss and have fun with. If I were you I would wait until you and this guy have established more of a rapport and bond before bringing up old flings 2
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