Girl who seems intererested, but intimidated

[Marcus87]

There is a teenage girl at my university who has beem acting a bit strange towards me ever since she first saw me about a month ago, and I think one big reason for why she acts this way is our physical size difference:

I have always been one of those "tall" and "big" guys - I am 6'8 tall and weigh almost 250 pounds, and considered very muscular - and this girl is only about 5'0 and slender, most likely quite light-weight, so, well, you can probably realize just from this that there is definitely a major size difference.

 

Anyway, her behaviour is roughly like this:

whenever she sees me, she will keep eyeing me over and over, or sometimes stand and gaze at me with large eyes without realizing that I notice it, but as soon as she realizes that I notice her she will look down on the floor and look ashamed.

Also, when I try initiating eye contact with her she will hesitate a lot, then perhaps look me in the eyes for a couple seconds, and when she does, her eyes are filled with a strange combination of fear, sadness and curiosity, almost as if she is trying to beg me not to hurt her or something.

Then she looks down on the floor again, and looks nervous and confused.

 

I actually think that she is very cute, but I feel like she is really scared of me.

What are your opinions on this?

Edited October 21, 2015 by Marcus87

[Frank2thepoint]

She is fascinated by your height and size. And very intimidated by it.

 

If you find her cute, attempt to talk to her. Say hello, introduce yourself, and comment that you've noticed she has been checking you out. Have a smile on your face when you say it, to try to calm her and not scare her. Hopefully she'll talk back.

[Marcus87]

She is fascinated by your height and size. And very intimidated by it.

 

If you find her cute, attempt to talk to her. Say hello, introduce yourself, and comment that you've noticed she has been checking you out. Have a smile on your face when you say it, to try to calm her and not scare her. Hopefully she'll talk back.

Yes, I will do that next time I see her.

I am pretty sure that she is interested in me, since I constantly catch her looking at me pretty much all the time and sometimes even gazing or staring at me when she thinks I don't notice it.

[mike_89]

I guess she's into you because she thinks a massive giant like you could keep her safe. Personally I think it's always great if a girl is intimidated by your size, usually it'll mean that she finds you attractive. Just make sure you smile and come off as non threatening towards her!

[Marcus87]

I guess she's into you because she thinks a massive giant like you could keep her safe. Personally I think it's always great if a girl is intimidated by your size, usually it'll mean that she finds you attractive. Just make sure you smile and come off as non threatening towards her!

Haha yes, to be honest I think there is something incredibly cute about the way she looks shy and tries to look at me.

Of course it's not good if she is actually afraid of me, but it is obviously quite awesome if she likes checking me out.

 

I am not entirely sure exactly why she would be afraid of me, though.

I mean, sure, I am a whole lot taller and bigger than her, but I cannot think of any concrete reason why she would be afraid of me.

I have always been a kind guy to everyone I have talked to at that school, and as far as I know I don't look angry or anything, but I guess she is scared of not knowing whether I am "threatening" or not.

[d0nnivain]

Try smiling & saying hello. Work up to talking, then maybe studying or taking her on a date.

[Marcus87]

Try smiling & saying hello. Work up to talking, then maybe studying or taking her on a date.

Yes I will try when I see her, she seems to be the type who wants me to take charge and charm her.

 

So far, some of the most promising signs I have seen that she might be interested are those moments when she has unknowingly started gazing at my body out of nowhere, while playing with her hair a whole lot at the same time.

And then of course those endless glances that she always give me when I am nearby.

 

Maybe she finds me so hot that she gets spellbound by me when she sees me?

Certainly feels that way sometimes.

I don't really have much experience with girls acting in this particular way, the ones who have found me attractive have been more direct about it, but I like to think that this girl feels that way.

Edited October 22, 2015 by Marcus87

[loverboy69]

Do you look like a cyclops? If not she probably wants the D.

[Gloria25]

Lol...no offense, but she could be worrying about your, ummmm "size"?

 

So, between just us here at LS, are you packing an Anaconda?

 

No, seriously, I've learned that you can't rely on height alone to know someone's penis size...I've seen tall men with small penises and one guy who was shorter than me (even waaay smaller shoe size), and was Caucasian had a freaking big penis, bigger than one tall guy I dated....go figure

 

But still then, what she does (the looking away, scared to make eye contact) is something I also do when I'm attracted but shy/scared/etc, but not cuz of a guy's height, it could be many other things.

 

Like others said, chat her up, smile and be warm/inviting...and good luck

 

BTW, at the gym, like a month ago I did see such a couple...dude was super tall and gf was not just shorter, but really, really petite. They looked so cute together

[Marcus87]

Lol...no offense, but she could be worrying about your, ummmm "size"?

 

So, between just us here at LS, are you packing an Anaconda?

 

No, seriously, I've learned that you can't rely on height alone to know someone's penis size...I've seen tall men with small penises and one guy who was shorter than me (even waaay smaller shoe size), and was Caucasian had a freaking big penis, bigger than one tall guy I dated....go figure

 

But still then, what she does (the looking away, scared to make eye contact) is something I also do when I'm attracted but shy/scared/etc, but not cuz of a guy's height, it could be many other things.

 

Like others said, chat her up, smile and be warm/inviting...and good luck

 

BTW, at the gym, like a month ago I did see such a couple...dude was super tall and gf was not just shorter, but really, really petite. They looked so cute together

Hahaha, well my size is just below 8 inches with a fairly typical proportional girth, so I guess that's fairly large - I guess it would be a bit of a "tight fit" to this girl.

 

Anyway, I did approach her and talked to her a bit today, and at first she seemed quite nervous (but she also seemed quite amazed), and after a little while she was sort of giggling and looked a bit red, and when I tried putting my hand on her arm during our conversation she sounded like she made a soft gasp, and she definitely seemed comfortable with it.

I suggested that maybe we could have lunch together this next Monday, and she said yes to that pretty much right away.

 

I have a feeling that she may be interested.