alextrussell Posted October 21, 2015 Posted October 21, 2015 Hello. Me and my girlfriend broke up exactly 3 days ago from now. I met her a year ago June 2014. We met up kissed and were attracted to each other, So on and so forth I just got out of a bad relationship couple months before and I was scared to get into another so I broke it off. We didn't talk for a week but I contacted her later on that week and we became best friends. We were friends until may 2015 I told her I wanted to start talking again and she told me she was waiting this whole time for me to say that. The whole summer we we're going on dates doing everything together her parents and my parents all got along it was perfect. I was visiting her last weekend nothing was wrong. I asked her to be my girlfriend and she accepted and was so happy. The next day I had to go to traffic court for a ticket and I texted her when I got out and something was wrong. I asked what was wrong and she told me that she doesn't feel for me anymore. We talked on the phone later that night and she started crying and telling me that she cares for me so much and doesn't want to lose me but doesn't know why she doesn't see us together in the future. I'm devastated and heart broken. I have no idea if she means what she says but she said I hate her because she made me cry. Which makes me think she won't call me because I'll tell her to screw off. Which isn't true. I really like this girl and was planning on not contacting her for 2 weeks. Is that enough time? I'm just wanting to get my girl back and this whole situation makes no sense to me why she broke it off. Help me?
d0nnivain Posted October 21, 2015 Posted October 21, 2015 Two weeks is not "enough". You are trying to manipulate her by disappearing & thinking it will make her miss you. NC doesn't work like that. It's about helping you heal not getting her back. She is the one that ended things because she says she had no romantic feelings for you. If her romantic feelings disappeared while you were in her life, they are not going to magically reappear after you are out of her life. You have to find a way to accept that it's over & move forward in your life. 1
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