Redhead14 Posted October 21, 2015 Posted October 21, 2015 We are ( were ! ) talking but it was more friendly but more than friends vibe is ( was ! ) there. Its just I didnt know how to steer it correctly , if it makes sense. Looking at it differently,does her going cold on me mean ( apart from me being a jerk ) , that she likes me and cant bear the thought of seeing me with someone else ? ( I need some pep up to go ahead ! ) I'm not even trying to shield myself so, punch away but please give some views from her side ( positive ! ) that she likes me and cant bear the thought of seeing me with someone else ? -- now you want us to mind-read? It's not likely that she can't bear the thought of you seeing someone else at all. Why would she be that concerned? You haven't even dated yet!!!!! She went cold on you because she likely felt that your interest in her was not sincere or very low at least. You need some pep up to go ahead? -- Suck it up and call her and deal with it or else this thread will go on for 200 pages . . . 2
losangelena Posted October 21, 2015 Posted October 21, 2015 We are ( were ! ) talking but it was more friendly but more than friends vibe is ( was ! ) there. Its just I didnt know how to steer it correctly , if it makes sense. Looking at it differently,does her going cold on me mean ( apart from me being a jerk ) , that she likes me and cant bear the thought of seeing me with someone else ? ( I need some pep up to go ahead ! ) I'm not even trying to shield myself so, punch away but please give some views from her side ( positive ! ) How are we supposed to answer this? We don't know what she's thinking. You have NO CONTROL how she'll respond, so there's no use speculating about what she may be thinking. Just contact her already. We're waiting ...
Author kitty12345 Posted October 21, 2015 Author Posted October 21, 2015 I called her Mutual friend ( female , in whom I confided about my dare ! ) already told her that I made a bad move and dont know what to do.So she basically told her everything Made plans for friday evening.I'm now ready for her back lash I like her , so Ill take it if it makes us move forward. You guys are great . thx
StBreton Posted October 21, 2015 Posted October 21, 2015 Great To hear Kit Now don't come back here telling us you made some bone head comment to her ok?! Engage in some fun banter and all eyes on her! Have fun!
Redhead14 Posted October 21, 2015 Posted October 21, 2015 I called her Mutual friend ( female , in whom I confided about my dare ! ) already told her that I made a bad move and dont know what to do.So she basically told her everything Made plans for friday evening.I'm now ready for her back lash I like her , so Ill take it if it makes us move forward. You guys are great . thx I'm glad it worked out for you. Now let things go naturally. Don't try to force things anymore. And, don't let your friends pass notes to her in study hall anymore . . . communicate with her yourself about any future blunders you will likely make. (I bet you knew your female friend would intervene).
Author kitty12345 Posted October 21, 2015 Author Posted October 21, 2015 I'm all for doing it myself and not involving other people in to my relationship.I like it private without interference but I guess I was weak and didnt want to lose her. I'm going to come to you guys instead 1
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