Author cadams0315 Posted October 29, 2015 Author Posted October 29, 2015 He seems to have this passive aggressive thing going, and he cannot accept any form of criticism. He responds to your efforts to communicate your concerns by breaking up with you and cursing you out. I am very articulate, tactful and respectful when I communicate. I have never cursed at him or flown off the handle when he speaks or tries to express something. It hurts horribly when he treats me this way when I talk about anything. There's no way to have an effective, open, caring relationship with a person who has such issues. Totally agree and he blames me for not being able to have a relationship with him. When he broke up with me this last time, he told me the relationship constantly goes downhill because of my past childhood abuse and told me if I got over that, we would have a great relationship. He said I have to learn how to forget about it and I will never have a meaningful relationship with anyone because of it. I am seeing a counselor to unravel my childhood abuse. You can expect him to act completely different now that you've cut him off. What do you mean by this? Act completely different? He'll promise you the world and more, but if you let him back in, it won't last. He's just not capable. It seems he isn't capable but some part of me still has some hope. I always look for the good in people and I guess this way of thinking has gotten me in trouble many times in this relationship. Have you been emotionally abused? Depends on where you draw the line. Being cursed at would be considered emotional abuse by many. Either way, who needs it? I have responded to your post in the bolded italicized sentences above.
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