basil67 Posted October 21, 2015 Posted October 21, 2015 By the way talking to girls and being friends with them, like in the friend zone, isn't it a bad thing? You're confusing "friend zone" with "friendship" "Friend zone" refers to when you've been chasing a woman but she only wants to be friends. This is an entirely different concept to "friendship" which is about having friends who are women. It's GOOD to have female friends who you don't want a relationship with.
La Trese Posted October 21, 2015 Posted October 21, 2015 My dad didn't date much and he was considered a hearthrob. It was because he just didn't really care he was a free spirit who had his own interests, and it was nbd he started dating at like 30. If you spin it that way, no girl will really think too much into it. Just don't be like "im single because i cant get a girl"...I know guys who say that and its like dude stop no you are sabotaging yourself...just be like "i was single because i didnt really want to bother"
Author Tuna1987 Posted October 21, 2015 Author Posted October 21, 2015 I see what you mean. I can definitely do small talk with a woman. I get emotionally devastated when I get rejected and I watch a lot of tv which tends to imitate real life. I saw an episode on Guy Code which brought me a lot of these worries, one chick said if she finds out that a man has been single his entire life or for a long time she'll assume either he's too into himself or he's a complete psycho. I know that's a bit ridiculous, but she's a celebrity and her word is bond to some people. I don't want to lie to girl saying that i've been in multiple relationships. In my head, I'm thinking that she tell me that she wants meet my ex, as if she's trying to test me or something.
Author Tuna1987 Posted October 21, 2015 Author Posted October 21, 2015 I'm thinking way too much of this. Thanks guys for the advice. I'll defintiely take it to heart.
Qboro90 Posted October 21, 2015 Posted October 21, 2015 I see what you mean. I can definitely do small talk with a woman. I get emotionally devastated when I get rejected and I watch a lot of tv which tends to imitate real life. I saw an episode on Guy Code which brought me a lot of these worries, one chick said if she finds out that a man has been single his entire life or for a long time she'll assume either he's too into himself or he's a complete psycho. I know that's a bit ridiculous, but she's a celebrity and her word is bond to some people. I don't want to lie to girl saying that i've been in multiple relationships. In my head, I'm thinking that she tell me that she wants meet my ex, as if she's trying to test me or something. No girl will EVER ask/think/or want to ever see or meet your ex. That's never going to happen to there's no need to think about it whatsoever. If you're worried about being asked about previous relationships then simply say "I've dated girls here and there but honestly never really found anyone worth dating for an extended period of time. I wasn't/am not the kind of guy to just date a girl for the sake of dating or having a girlfriend." That shows you have standards and won't just date another for the sake of it. It's not a topic you'll have to discuss much anyways. In any dating scenario it's usually low on the priority list to ask about past relationships and partners. So there is no reason to fear that or let it hold you back. Remember, these girls don't know you so for all they know you could be Mr.Casanova. You can be the best version of yourself without hesitation.
Author Tuna1987 Posted October 22, 2015 Author Posted October 22, 2015 Thanks qboro90 i appreciate it.
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