MrKman Posted October 20, 2015 Posted October 20, 2015 Hi everyone, I'm new to forums so I'm just going to let you all know my situation. Any advice/feedback is welcome. I am currently one month into my first year of university, and this is when I met this girl, as she is one of the other 5 that live within the same flat as me. We all went out that first night and I ended uo sleeping with the girl (kinda slightly drunk sex so didn't really think much about it as it was freshers week). A few days later she got with another guy (drunk sex) and she doesn't like the guy, she said herself it was a one off with him. Since then, me and her have been having sex together 4-5 times a week (about 3 of the times have been drunk sex). (now it's been a month since the first night of university). Through out that time we have definitely got closer, we kiss and cuddle in bed for an hour or two (no sex) and then we flirt when in the kitchen/lounge with others. We don't yet kiss in front of the others, or in public (apart from 2 occasions). We spoke about 'us' during the second week, she said she wanted to be free and do her own thing, but at the same time likes me and can really see us together in the future. Since then she has showed little glimpses that she may want something more serious between us (she told her best friend about me as well as her mum, in which her mum gave me a kiss on the cheek when she came to visit the girl 2 weeks ago. She has also said I should stay at hers during one of the holiday periods, as well as wanting to know the best way to drive to mine from hers during the christmas break. She has also gone into depth about her family to me, as well as asking questions about myself/my family). Last night we had sex (we tried a bit of tying up/light kinky stuff). During the 'after sex cuddle', I saw that she was on tinder on her phone and I jokingly said "so you're looking for your next guy already". She replied saying that she's just seeing what's out there. Later on she said "I really like you but that doesn't mean I'm yours as we are not near that yet". She did also say that we're seeing each other, and seeing how it goes (she did come out of a 18 month relationship a month before starting university). She did then kick me out her room as she had to be up in 5 hours for a lecture and our beds are so cramped (I have woke up in the morning with her before, just this time she needed a few more hours sleep than normal). By the way, I am 22 and she is 18 if that changes tour feedback/advice at all. So really, I kinda would like to know from who ever is reading this is tour thoughts on my situation and what I should do. Yet again, any advice is massively welcome.
PaperCrane Posted October 20, 2015 Posted October 20, 2015 You're a FWB with slight potential. Enjoy the ride, don't invest more than she does. 1
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