saras Posted October 20, 2015 Posted October 20, 2015 I am at a pivotal point in my relationship. I have been with this engaging, sweet , smart man for almost a year and a half. However, throughout the course of our relationship I have seen text messages and Facebook messages that don't align with my idea of what I consider to be appropriate conduct in a serious relationship. I have discovered that I have been lied to over some substantial issues and I keep making excuses not only for him but myself as well. I won't accuse him of cheating but there has been texts from the past (during the relationship) from a girl asking to go out on a movie date and he has agreed to it. I don't know if said "date", actually occurred or not, but it has left me feeling like a fool. We live together and I am terrified of what this type of upheaval this will create in my life, especially at this time. There have been a string of issues that I have had to deal with in these last few weeks and I am beginning to feel like I have nothing left. help?
Toddbt12y1 Posted October 20, 2015 Posted October 20, 2015 Just him agreeing to go on a movie date with someone else is bad enough. If these fb messages have caused you enough agony to ask for help online - then you know, it is your gut telling you something - perhaps something you do not want to come to terms with. Do not bottle this up for the sake of no upheaval. You are best to confront him about this; with proof, if possible. It is a far better option to staying miserable on the inside over something you clearly see as wrong..
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