One_Made_of_Silver Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 There's this very nice attractive girl I met recently in a cycling class I go to who's kinda touchy-feely with me. I introduced myself to her about a month or so ago, and didn't see her again in that class until recently. The other day before class I was lacing up and getting ready for the workout, and she walked in, smiled at me, said hey, and patted me on the shoulder. I had a brief chat with her after class. I just walked up to her, smiled, held out my hand to shake, and she took it with a little squeeze on my shoulder. During the chat I told a joke, and she laughed and patted me on the back. Like most guys, I am terrible at reading signals. I'm not really sure if this girl is attracted to me or if she's just friendly? I don't wanna misinterpret her. I don't mind if she isn't interested in a romantic sense, but knowing if she's interested in dating vs. friends would go a long way to deciding how I should proceed with her. She seems nice.
seekingluck Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 That much touching for me would be flirting, since it doesn't seem like you guys have had many interactions yet.
Author One_Made_of_Silver Posted October 20, 2015 Author Posted October 20, 2015 Yeah, it's not like I'm one of her close friends. I've only recently met her.
shet Posted October 20, 2015 Posted October 20, 2015 I wouldn't count that as flirting from interest. At best, if she's the type, I'd call it flirting because that's just how she interacts with men.
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