Panatana90 Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 (edited) I have been dating this girl these past few weeks. Things have been great and we've been getting along really well. We had plans this past weekend to go to a hockey game. I bought the tickets then two days before we were due to go, she text to say her sister surprisingly booked a weekend away for them and she couldn't go any more. She apologised and said "if I gave her the chance she'd pay me back and make it up to me." Didn't hear from her this entire weekend then she told me today she actually went with a cousin because her sister couldn't get a sitter and it was a very drunken weekend. We had very loose plans today but she said she wouldn't be good company cos of how much she drank this weekend. I'll admit I was a little ticked off with this so my responses to her have been very short and kinda cold. We've only had three dates but I do like her. Was I right to be blunt? Should I just wait for her to make plans? She hasn't offered anything yet. Wouldn't it be pretty lame if she was to have gone off me? any help appreciated! Edited October 19, 2015 by Panatana90
LostOnes05 Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 Don't initiate any contact. Sounds to me like she is playing the fade out game. I had a girl tell me once that one of her friends paid her a surprise visit and was going to be staying with her that weekend. I found that odd, as I wouldn't travel that far without knowing if my friend was going to be home or busy that weekend. Basically, she was stringing me along and that sounds like what she is doing to you.
Guyouthere Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 I have been dating this girl these past few weeks. Things have been great and we've been getting along really well. We had plans this past weekend to go to a hockey game. I bought the tickets then two days before we were due to go, she text to say her sister surprisingly booked a weekend away for them and she couldn't go any more. She apologised and said "if I gave her the chance she'd pay me back and make it up to me." Didn't hear from her this entire weekend then she told me today she actually went with a cousin because her sister couldn't get a sitter and it was a very drunken weekend. We had very loose plans today but she said she wouldn't be good company cos of how much she drank this weekend. I'll admit I was a little ticked off with this so my responses to her have been very short and kinda cold. We've only had three dates but I do like her. Was I right to be blunt? Should I just wait for her to make plans? She hasn't offered anything yet. Wouldn't it be pretty lame if she was to have gone off me? any help appreciated! Well if a girl who drinks and gets wasted is your idea of a good catch, all the best to you bro
Odinani Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 Hi. It does not seem that she is into you at all. She is seeing you as an option, not as a priority.
Author Panatana90 Posted October 19, 2015 Author Posted October 19, 2015 She still seems interested (I think). But she's quite bad at making plans. Usually it's me asking when can we meet etc - should I stop this?
Guyouthere Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 She still seems interested (I think). But she's quite bad at making plans. Usually it's me asking when can we meet etc - should I stop this? Give her the opportunity to show some interest…. You will then see if she is really into you or not.
jam.over.jelly Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 How do you even blow it? You didn't do anything wrong. I think it's best you sit back and see if she reaches out to you, after all she was the one cancelled the last date, the ball is in her court to reschedule.
d0nnivain Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 If you are still out the money for the tickets I'd take her up on her offer to pay you back. 1
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