Miss Peach Posted November 6, 2015 Posted November 6, 2015 To me it sounds like you are not emotionally available. Hence you are seeking connection/love in someone who can't give it back. I would work on restoring that and your self esteem. Focus on building other things in your life outside of romantic relationships. Join groups for people with your hobbies (meetup is a good place to look), take classes, learn something new for your job, etc. I highly recommend Natalie Lue's blog (called baggage reclaim), podcasts, and books. She's written probably thousands of articles on it. They were really helpful to me when I went through that phase after a LTR. 1
mtnbiker3000 Posted November 7, 2015 Posted November 7, 2015 CPA hit it on the head. You are a textbook 'nice guy'!! Lucky for you, there really is a textbook and I strongly suggest you read it, then read it again. Seriously, it's short And, it really has very little to do with the girls in your life, but rather with how you view yourself... No More Mr Nice Guy, by Dr. Robert Glover...
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