broken11 Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 Okay. So I've known this guy for so long and I've been in love with him for 2 years. Well we dated befor and broke up for 3 year then got back together and it's been 4 years. His been treating me really bad lately and I still stayed and begged him coz I always felt like he loved me. However 5 days ago he said he can't stand me he doesn't want a relationship and he doesn't want me and I just said that's not fair and it hurts heaps. He kept on calling at least once a day and I answered and it was like very shallow hi what r u doing. He came past my work yesterday. So I started to get very confused. That's why I texted him today asking where we stand and he said we are nothing to each other and I should **** off. So I said to him that I hope he is happy and I hope things work out for him. So that's it.. Ended I feel like **** and I feel like I can't breath. He however ended up calling and I didn't pick up coz I didn't hear it so I called him back twice and my number was blocked so I got worried and i texted him 3 times saying. I didn't hear my phone and then I said u all good ?? And he never replied ! I srsly don't understand what he is doing and why did he call me ?? I feel stupid for texting and all but why is he doing this to me ? Pls help?
Samuel_22 Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 Okay. So I've known this guy for so long and I've been in love with him for 2 years. Well we dated befor and broke up for 3 year then got back together and it's been 4 years. His been treating me really bad lately and I still stayed and begged him coz I always felt like he loved me. However 5 days ago he said he can't stand me he doesn't want a relationship and he doesn't want me and I just said that's not fair and it hurts heaps. He kept on calling at least once a day and I answered and it was like very shallow hi what r u doing. He came past my work yesterday. So I started to get very confused. That's why I texted him today asking where we stand and he said we are nothing to each other and I should **** off. So I said to him that I hope he is happy and I hope things work out for him. So that's it.. Ended I feel like **** and I feel like I can't breath. He however ended up calling and I didn't pick up coz I didn't hear it so I called him back twice and my number was blocked so I got worried and i texted him 3 times saying. I didn't hear my phone and then I said u all good ?? And he never replied ! I srsly don't understand what he is doing and why did he call me ?? I feel stupid for texting and all but why is he doing this to me ? Pls help? You are not lost, believe me, the thing is that, break ups all suck, and they leave you with this bad taste in your mouth for a while. I remember, 2 and half months ago I exactly felt the way you are feeling today. I was stranded! on the one hand I loved the girl who left me, on the other hand, there was absolutely nothing I could do to take her back. I cried for days, I used to smoke 2 packs of cigarettes a day, did not feel like living and working, I was shipwrecked, my whole world was lost. Good news is that, it is all on your mind! as time passes by, you will start healing and you will turn into a stronger, better you provided that you start NC today, anything and everything that is reminiscent of the RS must be thrown away-yes, dust bin- pictures, photos, birthday gifts etc... You will be fine, and you will find someone far better, you will look back and laugh at these days- I Promise- 1
johnbarnz Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 Sounds like he is playing games. MY ex gf of 4 years did the same things. They will make you feel bad, play games with your head, make sure they can still get you back whenever, and blame the breakup on you. Long story short my ex was seeing other guys. Im so hurt its not even funny and the pain is crazy. The best thing you can do is not talk to him unless its to get back together and then its your choice. I know its easier said then done. I begged her for a month and honestly it back fired on me. But the no contact is making me realize what type of person she truly is and that me and you both deserve better then a person like that. Leave it be, were all here to help you and if you need anything else just post. 1
mightycpa Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 He's doing it because you're responding. Just don't, and you'll be fine. 1
Samuel_22 Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 Well my ex sent me a message this morning, I was stupid to reply as well, she said how are you doing? and I said I am doing great how are you? she did not answer.... It seems they are all crazy! So what? she wanted to know how I was? well I was great..Funny I had ruled out any contact the last time we spoke.... Listen don't be me! don't answer his messages at all, we have to learn we don't owe these people anything! consider it as a power play! Arghhhh... I lost this time! next time, I am gonna show her what I am made of!!!
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