chris94 Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 so she had a week off before midterms. at the start i asked if we could hang out during the break, she told me she had a few projects/assignments to do (some group related) but then she enthusiastically said "but THERES ALWAYS TIME TO CHILL". so the first couple of days were great, we went out and watched a movie on friday too but shes been acting strange since about a little over halfway through her break. she would still reply but less then she did before. and her replies were a little different from what im used to so i told her how come shes acting strange lately. She told me that she feels the week has gone by so fast and that shes been slacking and procrastinating with her work (mainly because she wanted to hang out alot in the beggining). She also said that shes feeling a little stressed because shes behind on her work and not prepared for the weeks to come. Now i dont mind her being busy for hours doing work, but her replies the whole weekend felt.... different. i feel like shes trying to drift apart but i might be overthinking. Like theres a sudden lack of interest which is weird considering shes was so excited to spend time with me at the start of the week. Is something up or am i being negative for no reason?
GemmaUK Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 She is just busy and has a lot of work to focus on. She has explained all this to you. If she gets into long back and forth chats it's going to distract her so she is avoiding doing that. Get busy with a hobby or something yourself and give her the time she needs. 1
d0nnivain Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 You are being negative for no reason. She's studying for midterms. 1
Author chris94 Posted October 19, 2015 Author Posted October 19, 2015 i know shes busy but she different from the other times shes been busy. theres like a lack of affection or caring in her texts
GemmaUK Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 i know shes busy but she different from the other times shes been busy. theres like a lack of affection or caring in her texts That's highly likely because she hasn't had something quite as important as midterms to do when she has had busy times before. Comments from you about such a silly thing as texts not being as affection or caring will pile pressure on her from another source - you. Be supportive, respectful and confident in yourself and let the lady get on with the things she needs to do.
Author chris94 Posted October 20, 2015 Author Posted October 20, 2015 (edited) so yesterday she didnt really talk much during the day till she came home, she apologized and asked to meet up and hang for bit before she went to do work. we did but ended up staying longer than expected. went home and she didnt answer me till midnight, which she just said a plain goodnight. didnt answer some important questions that i asked prior. I saw her on facebook for another hour or so but she might not have actually been on. Today she hasnt sent a goodmorning text like she usually does and hasnt answered yet which is odd. If this keeps going on when should i confront her? Edited October 20, 2015 by chris94
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