wow Posted May 22, 2005 Posted May 22, 2005 My girl broke up with me a month and a half ago we were out for 4 years. Over the fact that she wants freedom and loves me like a brother not a boy friend. I had no contact for a month with her and then we started talking and having sex. I never initiated the contact and always acted to busy for her but i did see her. I miss her so much now and have not spoken to her in 3 days (wow). I want to call her and hang out? I do no know what i am doing posting this when I know the anwser. The fact is I still love no matter how **** she was to me. I have always been weak for her and in her eyes i am all tough and could not care about the break up. She thinks i have met someone new because her friends saw me with a friend of mine. Must i be honest with my feeling and tell her how i feel or maintain NC and remain in pain until these feelings pass?
Pocky Posted May 23, 2005 Posted May 23, 2005 Originally posted by wow Must i be honest with my feeling and tell her how i feel or maintain NC and remain in pain until these feelings pass? Tell her how you feel and then tell her that the best thing for you to do is to not talk to her anymore. And don't sleep with her anymore - you won't ever get over her if you keep doing that.
Candy Cane Posted May 23, 2005 Posted May 23, 2005 I agree. I think you should tell her how you feel (don't cry or anything) just say it matter of fact like and then tell her what you want from her and if she can't deliver then tell her to quit contacting you....and let that be the last contact you have with her.
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