Leaa Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 Long story short. Ex boyfriend and I broke up over the summer, still loved each other immensely but we were fighting a lot over anything and everything. We continued to see each other, just not as much or as seriously. Things started to go back to normal and we were about to get back together and then out of no where he woke up one day and said we shouldn't talk or hangout anymore and i was devastated. After about 3 weeks of no contact we saw each other at a bar, I was so hurt and it was hard to talk to him but it was so obvious we both still loved each other. He told me that night that he misses me every day and is always thinking about me. He told me how much he still loved me. We ended up leaving the bar and going bowling. He bought me a really nice ring while we were dating, and when he broke up with me I gave it back. I told him if i won the game he had to give me my ring back. He said deal but if he wins I had to buy him new sneakers, since he's been wearing the ones I got him for the past year. He was winning the game and called me over and said either way he was going to give me my ring back, he said how special it was to him and how he wants me to have it. He won, so I went home that night and secretly ordered him the sneakers and got them shipped to his house. However, we talked a few days after that and he was back to being mean and cold. Told me that i'm always mad and that he will "talk to me some other time". He didn't block my number (this time) but won't answer my last few texts. Now, I have sneakers coming to his house because I thought we were either friends or would end up back together. Also, I have tickets for us for a concert in a month and he told me he still wants to go. But i don't know. I want to talk to him, but i don't know what to say. Do i just leave it alone for now? I'm sure he'll text me next week when he receives the sneakers and feels bad for being so mean. But idk.
smackie9 Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 So I'm guessing he was the one that did the breaking up. The only way to make this happen is to resolve the issues he had with you. The clue is that he can't be with you because you start fights or there are things that he does that upsets you. What were the issues??
hippychick3 Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 Consider the purchase of the shoes a loss, and take someone else to the concert. Don't text or call him again and either block him or stop responding to any contact from him. He seems to like the "chase" more than he likes you.
Mrlonelyone Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 To me this sounds less like being broken up and more like being in a difficult part of a relationship. Tell me this.... how long were you with this guy? How old are the two of you? If you were together for some time, a year or at least most of a year... Then if you just give things time it may work out. If you were together for much less than a year then you can just move on. Especially if you are under 25. People change greatly at the age from 21-25.
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