oxypills Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 Hey people, So I met this girl at a part time job, she chased me for 3 weeks, then asked me out, then rejected me. Her rejection was very ambiguous (she kept agreeing to second date but always had a convincing excuse, stopped texting me first, etc.). So, we both go to colleges in the same city. I go to a large boring public school in the ghetto part of the city, but she goes to a small private school right in the downtown area literally underneath all the big skyscrapers. It's complicated, but I have a "gap year" to do whatever I want before going on to graduate school. I could work an entry level job, I could do a few minors or a double major, but (getting back on topic here) I was thinking of transferring to her college. It is so much fancier and would just be so much fun to go there. I applied, and ended up getting a huge scholarship (it costs $50k/year, i only have to pay ~$11k for my senior year!). I really, really want to go there 100% because it is an awesome college, absolutely 0% because I want to get back with her. If I go, it would be almost exactly 1.5 years after the whole "incident" (chasing, first date, rejection). My question for your guys - would it be weird to transfer to her college? Do I send her a message before I enroll saying I'm going there? Do I just wait for the awkward moment when I'm walking to the library and I see her walking toward me? What exactly do I do? If you are a girl, and you liked a guy, chased him, but realized he was actually really socially awkward, then wanted to let him down softly, and then 1.5 years later he shows up at your college, what would you think? Thanks so much!
thecrucible Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 My question for your guys - would it be weird to transfer to her college? No, not at all. Do I send her a message before I enroll saying I'm going there? No. Do I just wait for the awkward moment when I'm walking to the library and I see her walking toward me? What exactly do I do? It'd be less awkward than you think. Just say hello and ask her how she is and that sort of thing. If you are a girl, and you liked a guy, chased him, but realized he was actually really socially awkward, then wanted to let him down softly, and then 1.5 years later he shows up at your college, what would you think? I wouldn't think anything of it. 1
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