nikaa91 Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 I met a guy when I was on holidays in Spain. He was working in the hotel as an entertainer. During one activity I took part in, I noticed him staring at me. Like really staaaaring! On the next occasion he asked me out - unfortunately next day I was flying home. So we had just this one date. He asked if I had a bf and added me on facebook. We got some drinks, then went to the beach and made out a bit. He seemed to want more but I didn't let him touch me too much. He seemed dissapointed. I met him next time by accident and it was a bit awkward. We just hugged goodbye and I went home. Later he apologized for kissing me and we chatted for a while. He wasn't very talkative tho. I texted him a few weeks later and he randomly stopped responding. So that was it for me, didn't initiate more contact and just forgot about him. He has million party pics on facebook with plenty of women! He parties a lot, it's a part of his job. He has had girlfriends though - one for 2 years, the other one before - for 4 (not 100% sure). He's 30 years old, I'm 24. So several days ago I received a message, completely out of the blue - "when will I see you again?". Honestly, I never expected to hear from him again in my life. He asked if I wanted to come to Barcelona in TWO WEEKS time cause he will be there - lol, nope. I have college and limited funds. I asked if he would like to see one city in my country with me. He said he would like to, and that he would book a room for two. I'm not sure of his intentions - does he only want to hook up? He keeps saying I'm beautiful. I told him that I'm not going to sleep with him and he said he would never force me to. I'm curious if he's gonna follow through now that he knows that. There are plenty of sexy women, less conservative than I am, where he lives and he would have no problem getting some. I'm just confused.
kassy Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 No offense but it didn't seem that great with him. You hooked up once then talked and he wasn't very chatty... Now he wants a romantic two weeks with you and you don't want to have sex (fair enough)... So what do you see happening? You meet up and chat? It doesn't sound like the start of a long and beautiful relationship to me, sounds like a trip for rampant sex with a virtual stranger... Which of you were up for that could be great fun... But since you aren't (again and that's fine) why would you want to go? He clearly wants to have sex... And so what he had relationships before... Means nothing in regards to his intentions with you. He randomly asks out of the blue... So he hasn't been in touch for a while... If you hadn't guessed, my advice is to not meet him and just keep the memory and move on to find someone closer to home who might act want the same thing as you. 2
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