louisthe15th Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 I find that everyone here is usually the one who in the relationship is taken the split the worse. And coincidently, when reading through the posts, majority of people have similar situations.. I.e. dealing with cheaters, maniupulators, liars, spouse who couldn't communicate. And the end, it puts us in a rut. Constantly looping ghis pain we feel over and over as if it we can't break it. Even though realistically, the actions we hated in our spouse were horrible, and that should be a clear sign to find happiness or some sort of truth.. We can't. So I ask.. Are we the ones with the weak minds? Weak hearts?? I personally can't seem to crack my brain and wrap my head around the whole thing, its been 2 months, I was with her for a year. 1
TwiztidD Posted October 20, 2015 Posted October 20, 2015 It does not "get easier". It's been 3 months for me, we live together (in separate rooms now). I was the dumpee. It makes me feel like I was thrown away like yesterday's trash. I spend all day trying to distract myself, when I see her in the morning or at night, I go back to square one.
stemac Posted October 21, 2015 Posted October 21, 2015 I find that everyone here is usually the one who in the relationship is taken the split the worse. And coincidently, when reading through the posts, majority of people have similar situations.. I.e. dealing with cheaters, maniupulators, liars, spouse who couldn't communicate. And the end, it puts us in a rut. Constantly looping ghis pain we feel over and over as if it we can't break it. Even though realistically, the actions we hated in our spouse were horrible, and that should be a clear sign to find happiness or some sort of truth.. We can't. So I ask.. Are we the ones with the weak minds? Weak hearts?? I personally can't seem to crack my brain and wrap my head around the whole thing, its been 2 months, I was with her for a year. No we are the one you can fall in love real love, love to most people is only a word and can roll of their tongue as easy as blinking your eyes That's why it's so easy for them to throw you away like a toffee wrapper and leave the carnege they left behind !
Bito Posted October 21, 2015 Posted October 21, 2015 Depends on how you look at it. Strength can be measured in a fariaty of ways. We are all completely different because of our unique perspectives and experiences. A romantic person will always have a difficult time when it comes to the matters of the heart. We feel intensely and that can distort how we feel and how we remember things. If someone gets over a breakup quickly that usually means they either did not value it much or they found a way to redirect their emotional state. This could be a new relationship or a passion of some kind. But really, at the end of the day... It's not a compitition. If you're compareing how you feel to your surface perseptions of what you think others feel, you will only find pain. 1
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