domcruz Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 Me and my ex were together about 8 months, she claimed to love me and we were even engaged. Her reasons to dump me were not very clear to me, she was assuming i loved some other girl and that i was using drugs. I tried many ways to explain and to redeem myself, but she would ignore. And i would flip and talk all sort of bad things to her. I was patient for 8 months and tolerated many things , so this was the boiling point. This scenario of giving her another chance and flipping out happened three times. After a month of no contact she activated her Facebook and blocked me , in the meantime she would activate for about a couple of minutes and deactivate again. I assume she was checking up on me, so what happens now?? I left her alone and after a while she blocks me , like im going to run after her or something. I feel bad for giving this bitch a chance, i am very tolerate and i fear that if she contacts me i will be stupid and accept her. I really don't know what to expect, i'm focusing on my college and re-building myself for this period. She likes to play games, and think's i'm going to contact her from a random Facebook profile. What happens when she realizes i'm ignoring the whole situation. Although it is obvious i am not over her , but not as a person , more as a betrayal from someone i expected a lot.
d0nnivain Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 I'm sorry you are hurting. Focusing on school is a good idea. When you calm down & work through your anger re-examine the relationship which was incredibly dysfunctional so you don't make those same mistakes in your next relationship
BonerFide Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 in the meantime she would activate for about a couple of minutes and deactivate again How did you know she had activated and deactivated her account? First thing I would say to you is make sure you've blocked her on ALL social media so you have no way of seeing what she's doing, whether she's online etc. After my BU I kept checking if my ex was online and how often, and it just refreshes the idea of talking to them in your head. It's definitely hard to get over someone you used to know so well and treat them like a stranger, but it's what you have to do, especially if she's the kind that wants to play games. I would say keep focusing on college and try to remain in no contact for as long as possible. I know the desire to check up on someone or wanting them to message you is tough, but it's also something that really stops you from moving on, so you need to avoid doing it. 1
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