Flozfzx Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 Me and my ex been broken up for 1year and a month. we stay in contact for 4 months which i should have remained NC. I went NC because she kept string me along in saying she was going to break it off with her current boyfriend which never did. Its been 1 month and 2 weeks of radio silence. Ive been working on myself a lot and been healing dramatically. This saturday i get a random text from her son which i cared a lot about him so i wasnt being rude because hes a kid. He text me hey how are you. I didnt answer because i was driving so i get another text from my ex "sorry to bother you". I did replied back to her son but not her I chatted with him quick and got off the phone after an hour i get a text from her saying " with all do respect - i need to talk to you when you have time." I did block her she text me from a different number. If it was a ER wouldnt she come out and say it? shes in a relationship with a different guy and she doesnt respect me that shes sleeping with this guy trying to grab my attetion. 1. Should i reply back and tell her what does she want? (But that breaks my nc) 2. should i not reply if it is an ER then she'llcome out and say it? 3. Should i reply back and tell her to f'ck off?(using those words)
starpower Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 Well first question, do you actually want to be with her again? For the long term.
d0nnivain Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 How do you know it was her if the number was from an emergency room? I'm glad you weren't mean to her child. I don't think there is a reason to write back F U but silence & blocking her are fine.
Luke22 Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 Good for you for NC. Looks like you're moving in the right direction. If she respected you or wanted a genuine friendship or even considered rekindling your RS, she would not have made you wait with false promises. Knowing she had you "on the side" while she was with someone else tells me that this is not someone who is genuine. In my humble opinion, don't respond. You're doing well. Lastly, glad you didn't text anything negative/hateful in return. You would have regretted it. You are the bigger person.
BonerFide Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 It sounds like she is just trying to get your attention and get through to you, and is using the ER as an excuse... but try and think about whether she's actually that petty. I agree that you should just ignore her, if it's truly important she wouldn't beat around the bush.
Author Flozfzx Posted October 18, 2015 Author Posted October 18, 2015 How do you know it was her if the number was from an emergency room? I'm glad you weren't mean to her child. I don't think there is a reason to write back F U but silence & blocking her are fine. Heh i think you misunderstood me. I knew it was her because right after i got off with her son she texted me. What i was saying is that if it was an emerengcy or a problem she'Ll come out and say it.
Author Flozfzx Posted October 18, 2015 Author Posted October 18, 2015 Well first question, do you actually want to be with her again? For the long term. I honestly dont know but she needs to back off shes involve with someone else and seeking my attention. I guess shes a type of cheater in nature. I know shes not happy with her current boyfriend. When i was in contact with her she would complain that they dont do anything. I told her its not my problem thats what you choice. I know deep down she regrets her decision to break it off and not work things out.
Author Flozfzx Posted October 18, 2015 Author Posted October 18, 2015 Someone told me its rude to ignore a girl when ever she reaches out ? But does that applies to girls who are single or to everything in general. Im ignoring her because shes in a relationship.
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