dexterfan Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 I met this girl from OLD and immediately felt the attraction which is pretty rare for me. We met for non alcoholic drinks and I suggested going back to my place for a movie. We ending up cuddling, making out and had sex. She stayed the and left in the AM. She said thanked me for last night and I expressed that I would like to see her again. I like her and dont want to mess this up. What are the chances of this becoming something?
d0nnivain Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 I can't speak to the chances with only the info you have provided. Call her. Ask for the 2nd date. That is the best next step you have. 4
Otter2569 Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 Definitely ask her out again. Even if nothing comes from it, you have a great story to tell your buddies.
xcupid Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 Sex on the first MEETING? You don't even know each other. If you don't want to mess it up start (by) romancing her. Time will tell if you're compatible. 1
RoseWater Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 I met this girl from OLD and immediately felt the attraction which is pretty rare for me. We met for non alcoholic drinks and I suggested going back to my place for a movie. We ending up cuddling, making out and had sex. She stayed the and left in the AM. She said thanked me for last night and I expressed that I would like to see her again. I like her and dont want to mess this up. What are the chances of this becoming something? She thanked you for shagging her? She is very polite.
losangelena Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 I don't think your chances are any less than if you hadn't slept with her. It's generally women who have to worry about sex too soon. Proceed as normal, I'd say. 2
oberkeat Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 I met this girl from OLD and immediately felt the attraction which is pretty rare for me. We met for non alcoholic drinks and I suggested going back to my place for a movie. We ending up cuddling, making out and had sex. She stayed the and left in the AM. She said thanked me for last night and I expressed that I would like to see her again. I like her and dont want to mess this up. What are the chances of this becoming something? Sounds like a pretty good first date.
Vintage79 Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 Chances of it becoming something are still low. Realistically, most decent first dates don't really go anywhere past a few dates. That said - the chances are way higher than if the first date went poorly. Just give it time and see how things shape up. Just because you've seen her vagina doesn't mean you've seen you she really is... 2
Author dexterfan Posted October 18, 2015 Author Posted October 18, 2015 She thanked you for shagging her? She is very polite. Yeah I suppose so. I texted her if she got home safe and thats her response.
Author dexterfan Posted October 18, 2015 Author Posted October 18, 2015 Sounds like a pretty good first date. It was! I havent had a good first date since my first date with my ex about 3 years ago.. Problem is Im not very good at one night stands and get anxious when I like a woman.
phineas Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 ask her out again. cook dinner together, watch a movie, bang. or take her out, bring her back to your place & bang. this isn't rocket surgery. 3
dumbass2 Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 You got the grand prize on the first date and with no alcohol involved. Congrats and now don't become needy. Wait a bit and ask her out again, but don't over do it and don't be too too nice. You'll be able to tell if she's interested in more or if it was just a one night thing. With OLD, if she is attractive, she will have her pick of many many male suitors. Play it cool and confidence (not neediness) will be your biggest asset. If you loose that, you wont have a chance.
Author dexterfan Posted October 19, 2015 Author Posted October 19, 2015 Thanks for all the advice guys and gals. I'll report back when I get a second date. ☺
Author dexterfan Posted October 22, 2015 Author Posted October 22, 2015 Have a 2ns date scheduled for this Friday! We'll see how this goes.
Author dexterfan Posted October 24, 2015 Author Posted October 24, 2015 She cancelled 2nd date and then later asked me to join her and her friends at an event this saturday. Not sure what to think of this. Should I go?
phineas Posted October 24, 2015 Posted October 24, 2015 She cancelled 2nd date and then later asked me to join her and her friends at an event this saturday. Not sure what to think of this. Should I go? Go. she may be concerned you think she is just for sex or wants to spend some more time with you. However, if you don't sleep with her sat then you may want to rethink seeing her again. I personally never go backwards with a woman.
Odinani Posted October 24, 2015 Posted October 24, 2015 Go. she may be concerned you think she is just for sex or wants to spend some more time with you. However, if you don't sleep with her sat then you may want to rethink seeing her again. I personally never go backwards with a woman. Um....what if she has her period, or is just not in the mood for sex? Women are people, not blow up dolls. 4
fitnessfan365 Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 (edited) She cancelled 2nd date and then later asked me to join her and her friends at an event this saturday. Not sure what to think of this. Should I go? I think she's trying to slow the pace down because having sex right away made her insecure over your intentions. My suggestion - Pass on the invite, but counter w/a public date. Ex - "Thanks for the invite, but I'm busy that night. But we should get dinner and go bowling after some night this week. When r u free?" This way you'll show her that you have more than just sex on your mind, and you won't get stuck being grilled by her friends all night long. Even though you had sex with this girl, one date is way too soon to be meeting friends IMO. Plus, you want to keep building romantic momentum w/this girl and that happens by being alone w/her. Edited October 25, 2015 by fitnessfan365
katiegrl Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 Sex on the first MEETING? You don't even know each other. If you don't want to mess it up start (by) romancing her. Time will tell if you're compatible. My fiance and I had sex the night we first met.....together 5+ and getting married next year. He called me the next day and asked me out, the rest is history. Anything is possible. :bunny: 2
fitnessfan365 Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 My fiance and I had sex the night we first met.....together 5+ and getting married next year. He called me the next day and asked me out, the rest is history. Anything is possible. :bunny: Wow Katie..When did he pop the question? Last I heard, you two were determined to be common law.
phineas Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 Um....what if she has her period, or is just not in the mood for sex? Women are people, not blow up dolls. Is her mouth bleeding also?
katiegrl Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 Wow Katie..When did he pop the question? Last I heard, you two were determined to be common law. Lol, there was no popping of question really. We have been discussing it on and off for a long time, with him wanting to, and me wanting to keep status quo. After he returned from back east (he was gone for a month taking care of sick mom who eventually passed on), he got more serious about it though. We both lost our parents so basically we're all we have. Long story short, I finally agreed to go for it, and now I am truly thrilled, WE are thrilled! Planning a small wedding in Hawaii next year! I know, can you believe it? Even talking about having a kid! Yikes! :bunny: 3
Odinani Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 Is her mouth bleeding also? do you have a girlfriend?
veggirl Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 She cancelled 2nd date and then later asked me to join her and her friends at an event this saturday. Not sure what to think of this. Should I go? Yes you should. what was her reason for cancelling?
PogoStick Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 Is her mouth bleeding also? Crass but hilarious Sure oral is an option, but there's also the backdoor.
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