Olzman Posted October 18, 2015 Posted October 18, 2015 So here I am back after 3 years! So was with my current ex for a year and a half, was a roller coaster relationship to say the least. She continuously got cold feet & not knowing what she wanted. She ended it just after Christmas this year we was split for about a month and she begged me to take her back after she slept with another lad and it made her realise what she lost and i did. More fall me. So fast forward till 2 weeks ago. She was down I think she may have some form of depression or something she started pushing me away going out more with friends hardly speaking to me - we all know where this is going. her actions and way she was made me really paranoid also a cheating allegation against her didn't help, that obviously made me needy & want to be with her all the time & constantly question things the fact she was very vague about situations didn't help then she dropped the bomb she wants to be on her own work on herself blah blah blah. Heard that last time my previous ex split up with me for another lad, seems like it's a common thing for me. My current ex brakes up with me then after 4 days gets into a new relationship. I can see now she was speaking to him whilst we was together and testing the waters for her new love lined up - she denies this & said she wouldn't do that so could be a rebound could not. Either way I've learned from my previous failed relationship all the signs were there we just fail to see them straight away. I have struggled with the bu but it's becoming a lot easier with NC & a lot easier than I thought. I don't know why I have wrote this but feel the need to share it with you guys for maybe help & support Thanks
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