cancelled date

[katiegrl]

Iv been that confident guy before and women have screwed me over. I dont want to be that guy that doesnt get the message to back off.

 

She has not indicated she wants you to back off.

 

She cancelled, but attempted to reschedule. That indicates interest, not disinterest.

 

She just was not ready to have sex with you tis all.

 

Three dates was just too soon *for her*.

[fred123]

She has not indicated she wants you to back off.

 

She cancelled, but attempted to reschedule. That indicates interest, not disinterest.

 

She just was not ready to have sex with you tis all.

 

Three dates was just too soon *for her*.

 

Sex was never on the cards. I want to wait for sex with her. She said she was up for coming round all week.

Also i asked her out every date. Id look like a fool to ask her out again when she cancelles last time. Its upto her to ask me out now. Im tired of chasing this girl. 4 dates i asked her out now

[neowulf]

That's interesting.

 

It's been said on this board many many times that if a guy invites a girl back to his place, it's to have sex. That if a girl isn't ready or does not want to have sex yet,, then it's best to decline.

 

Now here you come saying you invited her over to only watch movies and chill?

 

Or maybe it was *hoping* to have sex, even though that wasn't part of the *plan"?

 

Anyway, like I said, if she's as great as you say, then call her when you return and take it from there...

 

I've actually started running into this a lot.

 

I honestly used to invite women back to my place for a couple of glasses of wine and a relax on the couch while we get to know each other. No hidden desire to drag her to the bedroom.

 

After a few women pointed out that "If you invite me up to your place = you want sex", I basically now limit myself to public outings till I'm sure I want to go there.

 

Of course that means she doesn't get to see my place for like half a dozen or more dates..

 

Difficult being a guy who likes to take things slowly these days.

[fred123]

Hahah well everyone got it wrong!

She is currently dating a guy for a month and she stayed the night at his after the fourth date! She was invited to his and she even stayed the night! No problems there

 

 

Haha she just wasnt into me.

Edited July 31, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
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[fred123]

Bump!! How come everyone got it wrong on here? She wasnt interested!

[joseb]

well, we cant always be right:)

[Lansing]

Bigger question is why are you still thinking about this months later? Do you still want to be with her??

 

Did you go on dates after that one cancelled date or did she just disappear?