Jadey Posted May 22, 2005 Posted May 22, 2005 My concilour told me to do this! She says its kind of a reality check. Cos whe you split up from somebody you may only think of the good things, their good points, kidding yourself they were soooo brilliant! But really thinking hard about things that bugged you about them too - nomatter how little or big, can really help you to see they aint all that were cracking them out to be. But she also said that we should write down and note the good points too. She said to write them down, think of them and remember them as hard as you can, as hard as it is, and as much as it may hurt. Cos apparently this is a way of moving forward and dealing with it better. So why not post them here? Write down your exes good and bad points, nomatter how many there are. You may only have afew for bad, but it still counts! But do not just write them down THINK abut them, picture them doing these things Ill post mine in abit..
eastern_mystique Posted May 23, 2005 Posted May 23, 2005 Good points about my ex: - Intelligent - Thoughtful - Attractive - Playful - Affectionate - Good listener & conversationalist - Talented - Unique Bad points about my ex: - Selfish - Self-absorbed - Lacks empathy - Has tendency to change his mind/ breaks promises - Can be casually cruel
Starnette83 Posted May 23, 2005 Posted May 23, 2005 Good Qualities of my 4.5 years ex or kinda ex hmm : Sweet, smart, funny, optimistic, great kisser, attractive, opened the door for me always, payed for my food most of the time, silly, approachable, comfty to be with, caring. Bad Qualities: rude, mean sometimes, careless, porn addict, curious, commitment phobic, not spontaneous or that generous, ignored me when we fought and made me feel weak and like the persuer. GRRRRRRRRRRR
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