xxBartlettxx Posted October 17, 2015 Posted October 17, 2015 Hi All, Four months ago I got out of a five year relationship, we lived together she was a fantastic girl but then she decided she didn't want it anymore so a year ago she moved out and we break up. Except we didn't, we stayed together doing regular couple things...neither of us dated anyone else...but we didn't kiss or have sex with each other during this time despite staying over at each others regularly. I knew this was completely mad and I wanted to be physical but she didn't, I suppose neither of us were ready to be on our own. Anyway at the start of the summer something snapped in me and I ended the relationship completely no contact etc. A couple of weeks after that I ended up going on a date with a girl I've become friendly with over the past year, was no big deal. But then the date was amazing so we kept dating so we ended up seeing each other for three months. I was really into this girl, but the fact I hadn't really dealt with my ex, meant I got probably a little too intense too soon and coupled with bringing up my ex in conversation a bit too often meant that we broke up. She was not long out of relationship herself so wasn't able for it. Anyway we had said we might give it another go when we're both in a better place...a who knows what the future holds conversation. Anyway that was a month ago...I was thinking of asking her for a drink to catch up and see how things are because we have had no contact since...but a mutual friend has just told me she asked her about us (now the mutual friend didn't know we were together cause we didn't want our exes finding out too soon so decided to keep it quiet and see how it went) anyway our mutual friend asked 'did anything ever happen with you two' and she said no, great guy but he's too messed up over his ex-gf we're just friends and anyway I'm enjoying being single. So what I'm wondering is should I just leave things now? I suppose the most frustrating thing is that I don't know why I've developed such strong feelings for someone I dated for two months. Any replies welcome...sorry for the mammoth post!
Author xxBartlettxx Posted October 17, 2015 Author Posted October 17, 2015 I should add, my ex has got in touch and now wants to give it another go! Just when I stopped chasing her! Always the way
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