Ms. Faust Posted October 16, 2015 Posted October 16, 2015 (edited) It seems like you are not cut out for casual drug use. So you can either talk to your roommates and apologize, assuring them that nothing like that will happen again, or you can move. Hope you're not pregnant. What a way conceive a child... Edited October 16, 2015 by Ms. Faust
darkbloom Posted October 16, 2015 Posted October 16, 2015 2 months of NC and I was finally getting happy again, he wasn't consuming every thought of mine and I realised I was better off without him , until my drunk mind decided to text him and now everything is so complicated as he has a girlfriend now and we met up last night and had sex, everything's just ruined now all my progress all the hurt I had to endure & I find myself back begging for his attention. Crying now over this mess all over a stupid text, please please do not break NC , no good will come from it, don't redo your recovery process as I done last night. Good luck people maybe one day we will wake up 100% recovered x Amy, This is your post from April. You got drunk and met up and had sex with your ex who had a girlfriend. The common theme in all of your posts is YOU causing drama from drinking/drugs. It matters not how many times you've used the substance but how you react when you're on it. Please seek some help and guidance for the issues that cause you to behave this way. We are here to help you but can only do so much. Be well. 4
newmoon Posted October 16, 2015 Posted October 16, 2015 well, stop the drugs and whatever else you take to start. make apologies for your behavior at the same time you give notice and move out. some things can be overlooked and forgotten, but this will be hard to live down if you stay in the same living situation. it'll affect things long-term, like how they see you now, how they treat you, what they might do to you in the future, etc. get yourself a 'new' start right away and go talk to someone about getting help for the drugs if it's an ongoing issue. 1
Quiet Storm Posted October 16, 2015 Posted October 16, 2015 Your behavior is reckless and self destructive. You may not be an addict, but you need help. Part of being an adult is being your own parent. All the things parents do for us (or are supposed to do, anyway), we need to be able to do for ourselves. Support ourselves, love ourselves, protect ourselves. The smart, logical, adult side of you has to babysit the impulsive, immature and weak side of you. You are failing miserably at that. You can't depend on other people to protect you- that's your job, as an adult person. Along with pregnancy, STDs and the embarrassment of facing your roommates...you also have to consider that with today's technology, this incident could have been recorded and could haunt you for the rest of your life. You are missing the internal warnings that should've popped in your head before you took the ecstasy. That inner self talk, the part of us that says "I don't know how this will effect me", "Am I in a safe place?", "Am I with someone I can trust?, "What's the worst case scenario?" You may not be an addict, but you need help to learn those self protection skills. This is so much deeper than figuring out how to face your roommates. 3
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