imtheone Posted October 16, 2015 Posted October 16, 2015 my ex who i was with for 3-4 months has started seeing her previous ex of 8 months again after we split up, we are still on good terms, we text still, but she never mentions him, i dont know if there are officially a couple again but i know they go out for dinner etc. im confused because i asked her if shes with someone then we theres no point talking and i dont want any drama and get caught in a love triangle, anyway she never admitted being with someone but just said there will be no dramas. we havent been in contact for 4 days now, we didnt have a bad falling out, but im just wandering is she thinking about me during no contact? is she wandering why i havent got in contact? i do still want her but i dont want her if her heart is with someone else. if this helps she told me she loved me during our time together, but i dont know if her feelings with her ex was stronger as they were together longer. the breakup of our relationship was down to my doubts about her as she did lie a few times in the beginning of the relationship, and i went out with someone else near the end of the relationship when she was away on holiday.
coryreply Posted October 16, 2015 Posted October 16, 2015 Why are you maintaining contact with her? Do you still like her?
Samuel_22 Posted October 17, 2015 Posted October 17, 2015 my ex who i was with for 3-4 months has started seeing her previous ex of 8 months again after we split up, we are still on good terms, we text still, but she never mentions him, i dont know if there are officially a couple again but i know they go out for dinner etc. im confused because i asked her if shes with someone then we theres no point talking and i dont want any drama and get caught in a love triangle, anyway she never admitted being with someone but just said there will be no dramas. we havent been in contact for 4 days now, we didnt have a bad falling out, but im just wandering is she thinking about me during no contact? is she wandering why i havent got in contact? i do still want her but i dont want her if her heart is with someone else. if this helps she told me she loved me during our time together, but i dont know if her feelings with her ex was stronger as they were together longer. the breakup of our relationship was down to my doubts about her as she did lie a few times in the beginning of the relationship, and i went out with someone else near the end of the relationship when she was away on holiday. Well first of all, welcome to the club, there are a lot of people like you on this site, and we have heard the same lies, and the same things from our exes who went back to their exes. Lemme define what we are called here, we are called reboundees. I was a reboundee myself, I made friends with this nice girl, after 4 months she broke up with me, abstaining from telling me the reason why. I Started NC and a week later she contacted me and said she did not want to end the relationship, she loved me blah blah and we got back to each other for another 2 months. 2 months later she broke up with me she told me she loved me and that she might one day consider being with me, so it has been 70 days from then and nothing has happened. Just move on, they will not come back. There are more bonds between she and her ex, and of course she chooses her ex over you...
Author imtheone Posted October 17, 2015 Author Posted October 17, 2015 i do still care for her and have feelings, but she been seeing another guy, who she never mentions to me, we are still on friendly terms, but i just havent contacted her for a while, im thinking if she really likes me she will it be known to me
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