xxCourt96xx Posted October 16, 2015 Posted October 16, 2015 (edited) Just some things I need to get off my chest. Long story short (already posted here once) I dated someone from my childhood for a year and a half (I'm 19, he's 17) and he ended up dumping me a month ago through a text to my step-sister the day after my birthday and hasn't spoken to me since. I've waged a lot of war on myself since he left and now I'm starting to feel like I was just nothing to him because he forgot me so easily...I'm pretty sure he's in something with his best friend, barely 5 weeks after he left. She's the complete opposite of me. I'm small and thin (I'm not even 5ft tall) she's tall, colors her short hair crazy colors, seems to have a very outlandish personality...etc... Nearly everything about her is the opposite of me, and I don't get it. I swear I'm happy for him but I don't understand how you could just completely forget about someone and not even care to see if they're okay. Why her? What does she have that I don't? :( Edited October 16, 2015 by xxCourt96xx
David87 Posted October 16, 2015 Posted October 16, 2015 Hey stop being so hard on yourself, hes just a kid, just like you, hes experimenting at this age. You were more involved than he was. 2
Strength in Healing Posted October 16, 2015 Posted October 16, 2015 David nailed it. You both are practically still in your childhood lol. I know that doesn't make it easier but in time you'll look back and smile. But short, colorful hair? That's gross IMO. Also, who dumps someone through text through a step sister? Lol. He's only 17 but his maturity level is around an 8 year old. 1
d0nnivain Posted October 16, 2015 Posted October 16, 2015 What you had was real while it was going on. It's over now. He's a jerk for breaking up with you by texting your step-sister. I mean, really, what kind of a louse does that? Yuck. You are well rid of him. As for the differences between you two, everybody wants what they can't have. Tall women want to be petite. Tiny women want to be tall. Everybody wishes their hair was curlier, straighter whatever it isn't. You need to celebrate your uniqueness & go from there.
Lukeee. Posted October 16, 2015 Posted October 16, 2015 He clearly doesn't deserve you. He's an Idiot and he's younger than you, from my point of view I would be lucky to get with someone 2 years older at that age. He will learn, he's only a little kid. You learn from it, and maybe you can start dating someone older. I'm 20 years old and I've broken up with someone who was a year older than me because "apparently" I'm not mature enough, even though I am. I really wouldn't worry about it, focus on yourself and it will all slip in to place. Remember, his loss not yours. Oh and who does it by text to your sister anyway? Jheezee... at least meet face to face.
stillafool Posted October 16, 2015 Posted October 16, 2015 I'm small and thin (I'm not even 5ft tall) she's tall, colors her short hair crazy colors, seems to have a very outlandish personality...etc... Nearly everything about her is the opposite of me, and I don't get it. I swear I'm happy for him but I don't understand how you could just completely forget about someone and not even care to see if they're okay. Why her? What does she have that I don't? :( He's young and someone like her is different from anybody he's ever been wtih so she's just new and different. It doesn't mean that he has completely forgotten about you and what you two shared. I would suggest that you get out there and start dating others as well. It's a healthy thing to do at your ages. I too think he was a coward the way he broke up with you. Some people can't handle confrontations so they take the cowards way out.
Author xxCourt96xx Posted October 16, 2015 Author Posted October 16, 2015 Thank you, you guys. I know...I was probably a little too invested in the relationship, mainly because we had such a connection even at our young age that I thought would last forever. He gave me a ring and we made plans for after high school and everything. I thought it was a dream come true because we had known each other when we were kids because he lived in the apartment next door to my dad and I swore I loved him. I would tell my dad we were going to get married someday...and when I thought that it was going to happen after high school it made me the happiest. I have this picture of him and I dancing at his moms wedding and I used to say we were going to recreate that picture someday and it hurts to know that dream is dead now. But I learned my lesson...most certainly. I know I'll find someone better someday who won't hurt me the way he did. And I'm a firm believer in karma. Someday he'll pay for what he did to me. :bunny:
casey.lives Posted October 16, 2015 Posted October 16, 2015 Some people see life in black and white and when someone has a red hat on .. that's all they see. Dynamic people, don't see the world that way... they see all colors and that some colors have their hey day... like white in winter/not summer. Duh.. The guy is probably narrow minded or small minded or just dead in the head. He is crazy strenuous hard work .. for your future... be happy he's GONE!!! he sees you as boring... and he probably can't stimulate you if the world depended on it..... things happen for a reason... move on.
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