Eternal Sunshine Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 Couple of months back, right after my 4 months relationship ended, I met a guy. We went on 2 dates and I was kind of burnt out and he seemed lukewarm. We made out but never had sex. I canceled third date and just never re-scheduled. We stayed in touch. He is very extroverted, has million friends and is really funny. I just don't go well with extroverted people in a romantic sense. My lease is expiring in 2 weeks and he is looking for someone to rent a room in his apartment to. It's a cool place, 5 minutes walk from my work. I can see living with him being fun but I don't want anything sexual to happen and I have sort of met someone else. Is this a bad idea?
acrosstheuniverse Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 No, you went on two dates. You didn't see each other naked. Treat it as though you would a friend. With you saying that you wouldn't want anything sexual to happen, do you think that's a risk if you live together? If you're in that place where either of you might still want to be intimate with each other, perhaps not the best idea. If the dating side of things is 100% over, go for it!
oberkeat Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 It could get messy real quick if he still thinks he has a chance with you. You might need to have a frank conversation with him in which you establish the understanding that you aren't interested in dating him and that this living situation, should you choose to rent this place, won't change that.
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