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does she want a second date or she was just being nice and polite?


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I just met this girl sometime this week in my parents house. we havent met since a very long time ( since we were kids) she initiated a conversation with me several times. she asked me questions and we laughed a bit. when she was talking to me she was preening her hair back and forth but that could be because she has a habit of doing so. I felt from her eyes that she is interested but i still had doubts.

 

a friend of mine gave me her number, i prank called her and this was the conversation

 

me : hhhhh it is a prank call

her; I knew it is prank call it was obvious who is this?

me; I am X

a moment of silence

she gasped happily

her; ahhh why you did this to me hhhhhhhhh why why

her is this your number

me yes it is

me; how are u doing

she was really enthuasiatic and happy

her; I got a cheap flight to my country for three days this Thursday

me; I thought we could hang out on thursady

her; mmm my flight is at six o clock, why dont we go tomorrow

me; mm i can't

her; why you can't you have other commitments

me yes I do

her no problem we can go out anytime during the week after i come back

 

I texted her during the week and asked her do you want to hang out on Thursday and she sent me message after 1 hour ' ''yeah certainly and I would love to ''

i asked if this time is ok

then she sent me a reply within 2 minutes

"" yes yaaaaay"

 

 

the date lasted 1 hours ( half and hour in the car and and 1 hour and half in the restaurant). we had lots of fun. at the beginning ( 5 minutes into the date) she picked her phone and texted someone super fast but after that we were engaged in the conversations and she didn't pick her phone at all. at the end of the date I asked for the bill she offered to pay the bill and she insisted. I insisted too and I paid the bill. she was like promise me that next time I will pay the bill. i was like yeah she said no promise me i was like i promise.

 

when we went out she said thank you for the dinner you saved my life. we talked for some time we laughed but after 5 minutes while we were walking to the car she picked her phone once and sent a voice message to someone. when I dropped her home when she went out she said thank you so much and we will meet next week ( she is out of country for 5 days)

 

when she said we will meet next week was it being polite or she really means it

 

and should I wait till she calls me ( just to gauge her interest ) or I should ask her out sometime next week?

 

is her taking her phone twice a sign of disinterest or I am being very susceptible and i am overthinking things

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she always wanted to go back to where she lives badly and she found it very difficult to adapt to the new environment. she is missing her parents after moving to a new university . after we went out of the restaurant she said I feel I dont want to go back to where I live.

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I would ask her out on another date if I were you.

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I would ask her out on another date if I were you.

Ya duh.........

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She probably called someone in the beginning and end of the date to check in because someone was concerned for her safety. Maybe a friend or family member. Some women do this. Don't look too deep into it.

 

Also you should call her soon to secure a second date.

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