malehere Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 I am not a flirt, I value long term relationships but things don't always work for me, it is hard to find a perfect match. What do you all think?
LostOnes05 Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 There is no perfect match bro...Always gonna be something about them you don't like whether it's from their past or present. 1
Author malehere Posted October 15, 2015 Author Posted October 15, 2015 (edited) @LostOnes05, dear friend, it is not about them always, it is about me as well many times. And when things really work, destiny makes sure we stay apart. I have been so unlucky with my love life, I have cried, walked alone, been destroyed by a play girl too. Since childhood I always wished for marrying one girl and staying with her all my life, but that one girl never came, all I got was temporary selfish relationships, sometimes others were selfish and sometimes I. Edited October 15, 2015 by malehere
mystikmind2005 Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 Better than actually finding that special girl, marrying her, building a life and family with her, then one day she tells you its over while acting as if it is no big deal at all. "today i bought some milk, got a hair cut, and what was that other thing? oh yea, tell my devoted husband were divorcing". You dodged a bullet my friend.... no shortage of men who will tell you the same. 2
Author malehere Posted October 16, 2015 Author Posted October 16, 2015 Better than actually finding that special girl, marrying her, building a life and family with her, then one day she tells you its over while acting as if it is no big deal at all. "today i bought some milk, got a hair cut, and what was that other thing? oh yea, tell my devoted husband were divorcing". You dodged a bullet my friend.... no shortage of men who will tell you the same. I agree with you but I have tried to be a player, it doesn't work for me, in the back of my mind am always looking for something long term, pure and fully dedicated. After all these years, I am still wishing for it, I am an extremely emotional guy though I am becoming more practical as I gain more experience. May be being 27 is still too young?
d0nnivain Posted October 16, 2015 Posted October 16, 2015 (edited) Finding a quality relationship is a numbers game. Being good at flirting brings more people into your orbit so you can evaluate them as potential matches. There is no perfect match. Once you find that person who best suits you, you still need to flirt with them to keep a spark in the relationship Flirting is much maligned. It's not dirty or bad. You seem to want to make it synonymous with cheating which it isn't all the time. Edited October 16, 2015 by d0nnivain 1
mystikmind2005 Posted October 17, 2015 Posted October 17, 2015 I agree with you but I have tried to be a player, it doesn't work for me, in the back of my mind am always looking for something long term, pure and fully dedicated. After all these years, I am still wishing for it, I am an extremely emotional guy though I am becoming more practical as I gain more experience. May be being 27 is still too young? Well there is not much practical difference between a genuine guy and a player except that the genuine guy feels like crap when he gets dumped whereas the player moves on before that happens. Either way the relationship has an expiration date, just enjoy it while you can. 1
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