njust1 Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 So... after my exes boyfriend of three months found out she had been cheating on him with me, he decided to stick around with her... and who wouldn't when she pays for everything, including all of the bills, apartment, etc... But, I received a text from her current boyfriend telling me that all of her emails, all of her texts go to his phone now, and that if I had anything to say to her, he'd be the one responding... So, I left it alone.... about an hour later he texts saying that I'm a p.o.s. blah blah blah, basically just attacking me verbally.... I ignored it....well for about 4 hours... then I finally decided I wasn't going to engage in name calling, but I just want to shut this guy up once and for all... so I sent him the following.. You know what I find hysterical.... if it weren't for me threatening to tell you... you'd still be oblivious. Even then, she nearly didn't, but i knew how to make her come clean to you...Somewhat clean at least...If I didn't tell you about the fake email account she made, if I didn't level with you. She NEVER would have...probably still hasn't told you the WHOLE truth...what I find even funnier, is you think by having access to her texts and email, her phone, and by her showing you SOME stuff, that you've convinced yourself that she's not STILL smarter than you... like I said... Nomatter how her and I communicate, I won't be telling you about it again... and if she decides to tell you, it's only because she wants to get caught. You're an idiot. Not my finest moment... but, one of my friends suggested that if he's monitoring all of her communications, and being really controlling, that I probably just made it worse... the guy does have a history of domestic abuse.... I've decided to not feed into any more of it, hers or his texts, etc... But I'm wondering your opinions, if the guy your girlfriend cheated on you with, her ex, who is the one who got her to come clean in the first place responded to you with something like the above... How would you react? Would that cause you to be even more suspicious of your girlfriend? Basically, what do you guys think his response will be? P.s. I know that this is all very immature, crazy, and springeresque... so aside from the dysfuctionality of it all, my primary goal was just to mess with this guy, for having the audacity to continue to message me and try to intimidate me.... so, without TOO MUCH judgement what are your opinions?
pidgeon1010 Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 You're both immature and being played by a girl who has no respect for either of you or herself. Her ego must be through the roof having two guys fight over her and going back and forth between the two when she pleases. 1
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