Troydama Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 Hi guy and gals, Posted in here a while ago regarding a lady I'd been seeing and an incident or confusion with regards to paying for a meal. That was sorted, moved on, haven't spoken about it. But 2 weeks ago, we was supposed to arrange to go away leading up to Christmas, not much had been said (both applying for new jobs and some other things), so when I mentioned it she said as "Yes but as Friends" ... So we talk, she feels the chemistry has been lost due to the incident before. She said I wanna remain blah blah, I have load of girls as friends, but none I've ever dated. Moving on, we've gone out a few times, now - she rings me, messages me as if we're still dating, went to see a film, and she's hugging me, holding hands, I know she doesn't do this with other guy friends - other day, twice mentioned about my time in replying back to her calls and messages ..... After the film, talking, being close, holding hands, cuddling, (I know I shouldn't but I'm still attracted to her) we talk and our faces are close, I think "Let me maybe make a move!, I did and got the "what are you doing thing". I feel she's giving mixed signals, I feel I should just let her go and stop wasting my time, and also to let her know what she wants, as in finding it herself. Long story short, would women act that way if not interested romantically, she isn't this way with other guys (that I know of)! And 2, shall I just drop her and forget this situation? I feel something may come of it? I don't know, thanks all!
Toodaloo Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 she said as "Yes but as Friends" ... This is your answer. You have been friendzoned. Time to let go and move on. 2
Michelle ma Belle Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 I agree with Toodaloo. She's grown comfortable with you which is why you're getting the mixed signals. She's made it clear she just wants to be friends. If this isn't what you want then it's time to stop torturing yourself and make a decision to either enjoy what you have with her while keeping your options open or end it. The ball is in your court.
Miss Peach Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 There are a lot of women when single will let their guy friends cross those lines. It sounds like she is one of those women.
Maggie4 Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 This is a version of friends with benefits, in which the benefit for her is cuddling instead of sex. You've heard of ex bf continuing to use the girl for sex. This here is the ex gf continuing to use the guy for cuddling.
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