ghsmith71 Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 He wasn't even nice to her. A few weeks ago she informed me she was curious about him. She started talking about him more and more and then started texting him. Last night they had sex and she broke up. Three years down the drain.
Guyouthere Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 He wasn't even nice to her. A few weeks ago she informed me she was curious about him. She started talking about him more and more and then started texting him. Last night they had sex and she broke up. Three years down the drain. This last girl i was "with"…. She still "loved" her ex, although I know she realizes he lost his mind and was beyond help mentally (is actually insane, tried to kill her, etc.). Yet there was part of her that said "she still loved him". How messed up is that? Now I have learned…. DO NOT give these women time to "heal". They just use the other (which means you) if you try to be patient and "wait" for them. Thats what happened here (sorry to say). First talk of ANY feelings for an ex, and we should be OUTA THERE ASAP. My condolences to you. MIne nearly cost me my sanity, and did cost me over 4,000.00 as well.
Author ghsmith71 Posted October 15, 2015 Author Posted October 15, 2015 This last girl i was "with"…. She still "loved" her ex, although I know she realizes he lost his mind and was beyond help mentally (is actually insane, tried to kill her, etc.). Yet there was part of her that said "she still loved him". How messed up is that? Now I have learned…. DO NOT give these women time to "heal". They just use the other (which means you) if you try to be patient and "wait" for them. Thats what happened here (sorry to say). First talk of ANY feelings for an ex, and we should be OUTA THERE ASAP. My condolences to you. MIne nearly cost me my sanity, and did cost me over 4,000.00 as well. I'm thinking of getting an escort for the weekend. 1
Guyouthere Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 I'm thinking of getting an escort for the weekend. See if she has a friend for me. lol hehehe
Stage5Clinger Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 He wasn't even nice to her. A few weeks ago she informed me she was curious about him. She started talking about him more and more and then started texting him. Last night they had sex and she broke up. Three years down the drain. Wow, sorry dude. Bitches be trippin. 1
LostOnes05 Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 Yea, that sucks bro. She'll be back when it doesn't work out. Smash and then when she wants a relationship again give her the classic ex-gf line, "I can't right now, I need to find myself" lolol.
jam.over.jelly Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 What is it about exes that clearly is toxic, and we all know to stay away, yet most of the times we end up giving it another shot, just so it can all go wrong again and again. Exes will always have that power. I'm sorry about your situation. 3 years is a decent amount of time invested in her, just for her to go back to her ex. Just wow. 1
mystikmind2005 Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 When it comes to rebound relationships,,,, that's why they invented FWB Because really, that is the reality of what you were to her, even if neither of you realized it.
lino Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 Classy. Textbook monkey branching there as well. Waited to f#ck him before she dumped you.
phineas Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 Been there. Dated a few women with "abusive" ex's that cheated on me with those ex's. Hell acording to some of my ex's friends I was the devil incarnate . Which totally explains why they would hit me up for sex months after out of the blue. This is why I have a rule about no ex's. If a woman still talks to all or most of her " horrible" ex's I won't get serious with her. Because, why is she still in contact if they were horrible? Answer they weren't. They just saw she wasn't long term material and just had fun with her. You should mdo the same.
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