AirGordon2245 Posted October 14, 2015 Posted October 14, 2015 Hello everyone, So here's my story: Me and this girl (Jessica) have been talking for a few weeks now. I met her at a coffee shop near my job. A few days after we met and a few exchanges of texts I asked out for coffee via text, she did not respond. I made it no big deal and figured she was just busy. The following week we are texting again I asked her out for coffee again and this time she agreed. When the time came for coffee she contacted me saying that she couldn't make it because she had a training to do at her job. This past week I ran into her and we talked for about 15min. She actually asked me out for coffee and I agreed. So the day comes and I'm totally busy with forgot. I end forgetting we had plans to meet up. She sends me a text reminding me that I forgot and that I stood her up. I apologized and said I was swamped with work and I honestly forgot. I counter offered and ask her out to lunch and she decline. Then I said let's coffee tomorrow and she said no she's mad at me. Idk what to make of this. She had no problem flaking on Mr a couple times so why is she mad?
PogoStick Posted October 14, 2015 Posted October 14, 2015 Sounds like she at least let you know she couldn't make it but you just stood her up. She has a right to be upset if she chooses. You can give her a week to cool off and try again or just give up. 2
Stage5Clinger Posted October 14, 2015 Posted October 14, 2015 Are either of you even into it? hahaha.. seriously though. Zero effort will yield zero results.
Zippy2000 Posted October 14, 2015 Posted October 14, 2015 So the day comes and I'm totally busy with forgot. I end forgetting we had plans to meet up. She sends me a text reminding me that I forgot and that I stood her up. I apologized and said I was swamped with work and I honestly forgot. She didnt flake as she told you she had training. You stood her up and then told her you forgot! It demonstrates to her she wasnt important enough and you forgot something important.....her! Poor excuse. Why is she mad? Can you not see from her point of view you let her down. She showed up to a place and you mver turned up? let me ask you. Wouldnt you be mad?
Versacehottie Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 She is not forgetting when she doesn't go, flakes or cops out. She's not that interested. She has high self worth so she's certainly not gonna let you flake on her and she's not that interested so.... In other words, I don't think you have any chance with her. How in the world did you forget?? Yep, in anyone's mind that would be "stood up". I'm sorry that you forgot. I believe you--you have no reason to lie here. But I can't believe you forgot!! Who does that? It's weird that it slipped your mind. Either you are not that interested yourself and are only now interested because she is telling you no OR she's so flakey you only half considered it a real date/obligation. I guess you could be just really absent-minded.
Ami1uwant Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 I think if you did this on the first meeting ( not her) then maybe she was have understood snd gave you a second chance. Because she stood you up ( short notice text is no different than a no show) thorn you stood her up she thought you did it on purpose to get even with you.
Mjm1014 Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 You forgot? I am an extremely busy guy and am only in my city a few times a month since I travel for work and I must say, I'm a bit confused by your post. Personally, if I was super into a girl I wouldn't forget (forgive me if I misread your post), but it's obvious she isn't really on your mind which is kind of a bad sign initially. I would let her go and meet a girl that you're crazy about and super attracted to. Maybe that's just me.
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