treehugger101 Posted October 14, 2015 Posted October 14, 2015 Out of all of the dating, relationships, engagements, marriages, etc. You have experienced, how many chances have you given your partner? I know I have given quite a bit throughout my relationship history. What about you and why?
d0nnivain Posted October 14, 2015 Posted October 14, 2015 What are the infractions? For minor things like being late leaving the seat up or not doing the housework, many. For something serious like cheating it may be 1 strike & you're out.
Michelle ma Belle Posted October 14, 2015 Posted October 14, 2015 I agree with d0nnivain, I need more context to answer this properly.
Author treehugger101 Posted October 14, 2015 Author Posted October 14, 2015 Then I would say the serious stuff. Cheating etc.
Gaeta Posted October 14, 2015 Posted October 14, 2015 I gave chances after abuse and I got abused some more. I gave chances after cheating and I got cheated on some more. Now tolerance zero on the big stuff.
Michelle ma Belle Posted October 14, 2015 Posted October 14, 2015 Then I would say the serious stuff. Cheating etc. In that case, zero. 1
Author treehugger101 Posted October 14, 2015 Author Posted October 14, 2015 Yeah my guy has hurt me a lot, and has done a lot of other stuff as well. But I keep giving him chances, because I know he can change. And as of lately, he has changed and I know this time, things will finally be better for us.
Stage5Clinger Posted October 14, 2015 Posted October 14, 2015 Then I would say the serious stuff. Cheating etc. Zero. Bitch can suck my ass.
todreaminblue Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 it depends......on remorse shown and if i feel that my guy is truly sorry...... all through my relationships i have given chances...on serious and not so serious happenings and eventually i knew with each relationship when it was over.....i knew when chances werent to be given i pray i reflect....i forgive......now yes this means that i get taken advantage of.....loving anyone is a risk.......but it also means ....that when the right guy comes along who is right for me...we will stay together..i just have to be more careful in selecting the guy who is right for me...and this time around i am getting it right.... ....deb
katiegrl Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 (edited) Zero. Bitch can suck my ass. Should there be an LOL after that? Not a good visual. Back to the OP's question. Zero tolerance on lying, cheating, any sort of deception. I am super easy going re other stuff (leaving toilet seat up, not cleaning kitch after eating, unmade bed, etc). If he forgets to call to tell me he's gonna be a little late, not a huge deal to me either (we live together so that makes it more tolerable). Edited October 15, 2015 by katiegrl 1
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