Mami Posted March 27, 2001 Posted March 27, 2001 Me and me boyfriend well he is not my boyfriend anymore but will be soon again. Anyway we meet on the net and where having a relationship for 4months with each other. Until he told me that we should break up until I get back home (rite now I am in MN b/c my parents are on a vacation, but normally stay in NYC so does he).Well and then when I get back we are going to work things out. But since that day everything has changed between me and him he is not like he used to be, he is not online like he used to or he was just ignoring me. Then I wrote him a E-mail saying that if why he is treating me like that and that I think he does not care for me. Well, after I sent him that mail when he read it he come online and told me that he still has a lot of feelings for me and is sorry for treating me bad and I should not think I lost, him and that I should not worry at all. Now I'm supposed to get back home soon and we are actually still not relay talking like we used to, he is just not online anymore and if he is online he is on a screen name I don't know but I am not so sure about that. I don't know if he doesn't believe I am coming back b/c I had told him prior that I was coming back home but then ended up not and disappointing him (that happened like 2 times but it was not intensonaly).Well he told me we should not get any deep feeling for each other before we meet face to face. And that I should not expect much from him until I get home and we see what will happen to our relationship. But i am confused now that he doesn't talk to me online even i told him i am coming we only talk once a week first we used to talk everyday and that was for 2 and a half months and since the last 2 months just once a in a while we talk on the phone and he tells me to call him whenever i want but still he does thinks just make me drought how he feels . Or am I just "Tripping" and should not take it serious and should understand him. I am very upset b/c I don't know what to do at all I like him a lot, and relay don't want to lose him but he acting like he don't wanna talk to me online is just making me sad. Well, I am going to be home (in NY) in like 10days from today. Help me people should i just not expect much or just move on just some kind of advice please
Tony T Posted March 27, 2001 Posted March 27, 2001 You've got to be a lot stronger. Whenever someone you care about stops paying you the attention you feel should be normal under the circumstances, have a talk with them and let them know how you feel. If they continue to respond poorly to you, write them off. Online relationships are difficult and seldom work out over the longrun. Stop fooling yourself. When you get back home, start looking for love among people who you can see, feel, touch, smell and go out with. Stop this online nonsense unless you are able to meet the person and interact with them in person fairly soon after meeting them online. I think you ought to stop putting energy into worrying about this guy. He sounds like an OK guy but you aren't going to get what you want out of this relationship. NOT NOT NOT.
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