Guyouthere Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 you know I believe it is a wise idea for both the guy and woman to have an actual and realistic back up plan just in case something did go wrong.
kilgore Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 you know I believe it is a wise idea for both the guy and woman to have an actual and realistic back up plan just in case something did go wrong. You mean like another ride home?
Guyouthere Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 You mean like another ride home? Yes, and/or some money for a taxi, etc.
Author jam.over.jelly Posted October 19, 2015 Author Posted October 19, 2015 Yes, and/or some money for a taxi, etc. The thing is it wasn't so much about the ride, it was the fact that I was already there, and I got tickets to the paella and wine tasting event so I might as well make my money worth. 2
kilgore Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 The thing is it wasn't so much about the ride, it was the fact that I was already there, and I got tickets to the paella and wine tasting event so I might as well make my money worth. True but he seems a bit unhinged. I probably would have wanted to give it a shot too. But that doesn't make it a good idea from a self preservation pov
Versacehottie Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 See why it's a waste of time to worry as much as you did before you had ever gone on a date? Using your own intuition you found something else entirely than what you were worried about so that YOU are not interested in him rather than he'd be playing you. You weren't in a position before to have enough information and THERE WAS interest there so in order not to live a life full of fear and take GOOD risks, it was good to go. Now you will have no regrets. You have enough information now and it's not based on assumptions, fear etc. 2
kilgore Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 See why it's a waste of time to worry as much as you did before you had ever gone on a date? Using your own intuition you found something else entirely than what you were worried about so that YOU are not interested in him rather than he'd be playing you. You weren't in a position before to have enough information and THERE WAS interest there so in order not to live a life full of fear and take GOOD risks, it was good to go. Now you will have no regrets. You have enough information now and it's not based on assumptions, fear etc. Well said, vh 1
Guyouthere Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 Money or not, you learned something here…. And were wise enough to see it. 1
joseb Posted October 19, 2015 Posted October 19, 2015 **Update** Finally went on the date with this guy. He picked me up, was a total gentleman. We had a blast, however I don't think the connection is there, plus I can sense that he has a temper. He parked the car in the parking lot where they would park the car for you. We waited for about 5 minutes. I didn't think it was a big deal having to wait. He couldn't wait, he told me he was irritated because service seemed to suck there. We got back into his car to get out of there, there was a car in front of us, parked. Next to it was the sign blocking our way. He got out of his car and moved the sign, I could tell he was pissed. But then he brushed it off. We moved on, had our date which lasted for about 5 hours. I enjoyed his company but at the same time was turned off by his behavior. Don't think I want to see him again. On the face of it, it's reasonable to get a bit annoyed in that situation, but it sounds like you are picking up on an aggressive personality. I'm always wary of people that complain a lot about service, especially ones that are rude to staff. 2
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