imaginingred Posted October 13, 2015 Posted October 13, 2015 Hello all. I met a guy online and we've been talking for a while. I'm 19 and he's 25, and he lives halfway across the country. He seems like a sweet and funny guy, and we have a lot in common when it comes to humor and tastes in literature and art. The thing is, he has a very high sex drive (it says so on his profile), and the flirting soon escalated into sexting. I played along, but I wasn't really into it like he was, and I rejected his advances a few times. I was always the one to end the sexting. (I actually enjoy it, but I guess I'm still warming up to the idea). Anyway, he asked me to send him sexy pictures, and although I was reluctant at first, I eventually did send him some mild ones (no actual nudes). He was very happy with them and complimented me tons, and he said that he really wanted to meet with me. But he basically stopped talking to me after that. It's been a week. He used to talk to me almost every day. It shows that he's been online. What's the deal? Thanks for any input!
Zippy2000 Posted October 13, 2015 Posted October 13, 2015 He got bored with you and your sexting was limited until you stopped. Just a word of caution. Watch what you send in pics as some people my use them against you in "revenge porn", blackmail or they could end up on the internet. Just goes to show you what quality of man you picked up. Next time have less focus on sexting. He`s probably met someone else to sext. 1
Michelle ma Belle Posted October 13, 2015 Posted October 13, 2015 Did you meet him on a legit dating site? Regardless, this has become quite the norm anymore. If I had a dime for every guy I met on OLD who behaved this way I'd be RICH! The writing is on the wall with this guy. Unless you're open to just casual NSA fun, forget about him. He's online looking for some fun and nothing more. These guys are a dime a dozen. You blew him off and therefore he's online hunting for another girl (or many girls) to feed his ego. On a side note I hope you're being VERY careful about the pictures you're sending him. I could write a novel about the horror stories of online play with strangers. BE CAREFUL! 1
fitnessfan365 Posted October 13, 2015 Posted October 13, 2015 You said that he lives halfway across the country from you. My guess is that he just wanted to talk dirty and get a few pics to hold him over until he meets the next local woman he wants to date. 2
stillafool Posted October 13, 2015 Posted October 13, 2015 He is probably now having sex with someone near him. Why talk about it when you can be about it.
Vintage79 Posted October 13, 2015 Posted October 13, 2015 Umm - he lives halfway across the country, you didn't play the game he wanted, and he got you to send him sexy pics...it sounds like he won and that it's time to move on...I don't know why you thought you would be anything other than entertainment - when the pictures were the finale (i.e. game over), or else you're simply not as interesting as other people he can chat with (given that his domain is likely the entire US)... Next time try chatting with someone you can actually meet after a few days, as opposed to whatever it was you were trying to do with a guy halfway across the country that would never lead to anything...
GunslingerRoland Posted October 13, 2015 Posted October 13, 2015 If he want you for sex probably the fact you were half a country away and unwilling to get naked for him, sent him away... I'm sure you can find better even if it is a sexual relationship you want.
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