hardchanges Posted October 13, 2015 Posted October 13, 2015 Today, my ex-girlfriend (whom I previously posted about... and yes, you were all correct about her, "break" = "break up/beginning of the end") messaged me. She initially sent just "Hi" after 2 months of NC back in June, which I ignored. This morning, almost 4 months later, I woke up to this on facebook: At 5am: why are you awake so early? Note, I wasn't awake at that time, but apparently FB said I was logged in. I don't respond after seeing it, and was contemplating if I should answer. However, after 20 mins (from the read receipt), she messaged: Fine don't reply I know you read it I still haven't replied. But I have to ask, am I being childish not replying to her? Overall, it was not a clean breakup, and I still hold a lot of negative feelings towards her. In the last 4 months of our relationship she kept pushing me away and was very silent: * She made excuses every weekend (long distance), not to see me, while posting pics of her out with other guys and friends * Chose her friends over me on Valentine's day * Didn't see me after I had surgery * Would make posts hidden from me on facebook, while talking about another guy * And in the last month, she ignored every message/call I sent to her, while I tried to initiate a convo with her almost every day I feel like from the way she treated me, she's not entitled to a response from me, but at the same time, the last time I spoke to her was 6 months ago. Thoughts?
bluefeather Posted October 13, 2015 Posted October 13, 2015 My thoughts are you should have blocked her a long time ago. I blocked and never had to deal with any of that bs.
LostOnes05 Posted October 13, 2015 Posted October 13, 2015 Don't reply dude. Whatever she was doing didn't pan out, so she is back trying to talk to you. And after reading how she treated you, it would be a big mistake to let her back in your life. Keep up the NC!
Shock148 Posted October 13, 2015 Posted October 13, 2015 After reading all that she did to you, she does not deserve a response. She deserves a big F*** YOU! and only way to do that is block that woman. So next time she tries to text you via facebook or phone, it can give her these lovely little words of cannot send message to this person. 1
marcusdevilliers Posted October 14, 2015 Posted October 14, 2015 Bruh. I want you to read over your post. Pay attention to all the asterits. All the time she was never there for u, never even a friend more less a gf. She treated u badly. I know how your feeling. You may still have feelings for her and what not, very angry as well. But you made your effort in trying to talk to her, she ignored you. Now she expects a reply for those stupid messages. Man block that lol. She doesn't deserve anything from u. She needs to come way better than that. N.C all the way, she needs to come alot better to get a reply. So dont respond.
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