Hopeful30 Posted October 14, 2015 Posted October 14, 2015 I've been in the exact same situation. I still have no idea what it was, but I get shudders everytime I think back to it. OP it doesn't matter what the problem is, or how to tell her. The point is that it is what it is, and you can either take it or leave it. Telling her (after she's already gotten defensive) will do nothing but stir up the dust again. You should try it. At least then you'll see that this situation cannot be fixed. I'm sorry if it comes on strong my opinion I just know exactly the type of person you are referring to (meaning what people can be like when they are in that emotional state). Be kind to yourself, spare the drama.
SugarLips72 Posted October 14, 2015 Posted October 14, 2015 It sounds like she is uncomfortable having sex. I think you need to flat out ask her of she enjoys sex and is attracted to you? Is she aroused at all? sex is no fun when the other person just lays there and doesnt recriprocate. Not normal. If you are at the point where you no longer enjoy sex with her the relationship is pretty much over.
Lois_Griffin Posted October 14, 2015 Posted October 14, 2015 (edited) We are doing it in only one position and she never help me finish in any way. You seem to be under the mistaken impression that the ultimate goal is YOU finishing. What are YOU doing to help her 'finish?' Sounds as though you spend half an hour making out then have intercourse until YOU'RE satisfied. You know sex is a two-way street, right? Do you magically just expect her to climax through intercourse because all the bimbos in porn pretend to? Smh. Edited October 14, 2015 by Lois_Griffin 1
joseb Posted October 14, 2015 Posted October 14, 2015 To me it sounds like you two are just not sexually compatible. You dont enjoy sex with her and it seems sex with you makes her tense up more now than at the start. Maybe try one last honest heart to heart conversation, but to be frank i suspect it wont help much.
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