Guyouthere Posted October 13, 2015 Posted October 13, 2015 So I will ask the ladies here…. what their take is on this… The last week or so, I have had two different women come into the store I work,,,, they have acted "differently" (I noticed). Some background,,,, many here know I was dumped by that girl I helped and loved, so be it. I don't know if she will come back, but thats not what I am posting about here. Since I was "dumped" for her new guy, I have been working on myself,,,, have lost some weight and toned down quite a bit (I was never fat to begin with, but I know my looks have changed quite a lot during the past month even, as my co workers have said too). So those two women,,, each comes in,,,, a week apart… not related to each other at all… I help them, they "hang around me" and ask my help (as many customers do). BUT, I get into the usual smiling and happy demeanor I have, and they leave BUT come back to me,,, and I can tell they are kind of flirting (if not outright flirting). The one woman tonight, she tells me on her own that "she is divorced". So, yes, I am not an experienced dater.,, because I was married for so long,,, and that had that last woman in my life…. So ladies,,,, whats your opinion? Are these women looking for me to ask them out? Neither had a real reason to come back a few minutes later (that is obvious to me).
StBreton Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 the lady who dropped the "I'm divorced" ...did so intentionally ...that's my op inion. I don't know the context of the conversation but if it came out of no where she's flirting. I've done this one time with a person who sat next to me at lunch after he told me he was divorced. He was cute but found out he's 10 yrs younger and his kids were really young so didn't follow up with conversation beyond some pleasantries. Next time it happens to you ask the gal if she wants to grab coffee some time. Go for it! You have nothing to lose and a lot to gain ...maybe just a friendship but you won't know if you don't ask:)
Michelle ma Belle Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 It's hard to speculate on what their true intentions were but then again you'll never know unless you try.
smackie9 Posted October 15, 2015 Posted October 15, 2015 It doesn't matter if you know they do or not, just do it!! 1
Author Guyouthere Posted October 15, 2015 Author Posted October 15, 2015 She came in as many women (and guys) do…. looking for advice and products. It is my job to determine and solve their problems, which i do, and it makes my job challenging that way too, which is very good. I had asked her if she made crafts (based on what she was looking for). I could tell that she was "reserved", struck me as one of those women who "might not trust guys". Since she told me that she was making something for the outside of her home, I asked her if it was her first home. Thats when she said "no, my third, but first since I am divorced". Given she had already left and then came back, I felt maybe she was flirting, but I am no expert trying to read women. lol I do get repeat customers, who knows if she will return. I do encounter many women as customers…. once had one grab my arm and told me she wanted to take me home to cook me spaghetti. lol That was when I was with the 24 year old…. so I didn't "go for it". That one wasn't my type anyway, but she sure tried to make it clear she wanted to cook that dinner. lol
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