wakamiya Posted May 20, 2005 Posted May 20, 2005 hello everyone I just want to make an update from what happened. any input is welcome So, last week I found some posts my bf made on some website - they were really disgusting and immature, about women. I questioned him about it, and he said his friends wrote it probably. I didn't know what to do at the time, I was so upset.. I didn't know whether to cry or block him out of my life in the meantime. at the same time, he wasn't showing up very much during the week.. I only saw him 3 times a week at the most, and I tried to ask him about it and he took it the wrong way, and got angry at ME for complaining! the same week he kept complimenting me when he was around, he said I was "REALLY cute :$" on msn.. do you think he was just trying to keep me interested? I have a hard time letting this go, because next week I would have known him for a year, and we were close. I don't even know if he's coming back. I thought I knew him really well, but tuesday he said I was "wasting his time and he doesn't have that much time" and told me not to email him, and he doesn't want me to contact him at all. what's a girl to do? I didn't write any posts under my name like that.. and I had time for him even though I have a busy schedule.
Artscrafter Posted May 22, 2005 Posted May 22, 2005 A guy who's seriously interested in repairing the damage from a heated argument would apologize, or offer to look over the argument and make up for it, or something to that effect, not alternately say you were cute and brush you off. Whether or not he posted the thing isn't even the issue anymore (but it looks like you knew that already.) Sounds to me like he wants to break things off with you. Go with that for now - you're only wasting both of your time and making it worse by trying to contact him when he doesn't want it. If he wants to come back after he's had time to cool off, you'd better get a sincere apology and/or explanation. Otherwise forget it. And if he doesn't get back to you (I wouldn't wait for it) then that's that.
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