Gochelseablues Posted October 12, 2015 Posted October 12, 2015 I was dating girl a for a 2 months or so. I really had fallen for her. She kept playing games, Hot and cold. It was 2 steps forward one step back. I began to resent her but still have a deep deep care for her. She is for the most part a good girl. Eventually we stopped dating on mutual terms. I waited a month or so and started dating someone else. I still had some strong feelings for the old girl while dating the new girl. But to me the new girl was a better catch, and more into me. I care about the new girl and feel that's the smart decision. Now it's been a couple months and the old girl is dropping breadcrumbs. We had been NC for months. She knows im with someone new. In her defense it was to ask me a question about something she was working on. I responded cordially and not flirty and that was it. Ive had a few dreams of the old girl on a few occassions. I know it's not fair to the new girl. Things are going well with the new girl, and we've gotten serious. Part of me still has feelings for the old girl. I have said hi to her or saw her from a distance, we both are in the gym, I see her probably once a month or so. Just being honest here, It's a blessing in disquise being that Im with the new girl, as she's great, and it's most likely a blessing in disguise that things didn't work out with the old girl. However I still have feelings. Even with NC. When I saw the breadcrumbs come in. If the breadcrumbs had came in before I was with the new girl I may've hoped it was her wanting to give it a try, but her crumbs aren't her begging to give it another chance, so they most likely mean nothing. Curious if anyone has had a similar experience and had an ex one back when they're already in a relationship.
louxor Posted October 12, 2015 Posted October 12, 2015 Many dumper's use the fact that their ex is missing them as a way to feel better about themselves. This may be the case here, in my opinion - She's noticed you have a new girl which is a sign that you are moving on, and this has made her uneasy so she is sending breadcrumbs in order to see if you still do miss her. You said they were fairly meaningless messages, so I wouldn't take anything from it.
Author Gochelseablues Posted October 12, 2015 Author Posted October 12, 2015 Ya the breadcrumbs were not even about me. I think that's all I needed to hear.
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