mattyy Posted October 12, 2015 Posted October 12, 2015 Hi, my name is Matt and I am 17. Last week I was at a week long school camp from Sunday till Friday. It was camp involving schools from all over the country. On the Monday I saw this girl. She is beautiful and I really wanted to go talk to her. But I am rather shy. My friend who I was rooming with is the total opposite of me. So he was like "Dude, just go say hi!" the whole time. I didn't have the guts so I just left it. On Tuesday I saw her again but didn't have the guts once again. On Wednesday we went to the mall and nearby I went into a shop with my friend to go buy some hair clay. I saw this girl talking to my teacher. So I thought to myself now is my chance to met her. So I went over and asked Ma'am the stupidest thing. I said "Ma'am do you think I should buy this hair clay?" This girl was there with one of her friends and the two of the got involved in our conversation and were like "No that stuff doesn't work, you should get the blue one." I have never bought this stuff before so i was confused. She said "Do you want me to show you which one?" so obviously i said yes. So myself and my friend followed the two if them across the shop. She explained why that one doesn't work and why the other one is better. So I asked her "How do you know all this?" to which her friend replied "She has a boyfriend." So we continued talking then my friend left and the two girls and I went to the till to pay for the things we had bought. The rest of the my school was outside the shop. The girls then asked me if I knew the guy in the purple shirt. I said yes. This guy they pointed to is a close friend of mine but he is also much better looking the all us other guys. So I expected this to go how it usually did with them asking me for his number or to introduce them to him. Instead the friend said "Flip he is such an *******!" This had me in hysterics. So after a stopped laughing I explained that he is a close friend of mine and he isn't always like that. So then the girl I liked said "If you such good friends how come he is such and ass and your so nice?" Again, I just laughed. She then said "I guess you've asked yourself that already?" I was then called to the till so I said goodbye and left. The next day I bumped into her in the art exhibit. We started talking and she showed me a photo that her friend took that was of her. Then she was "Come look her" and put her hand out. I didn't grab her hand but I just followed her across the room where she wanted to show me a picture her friend drew. She talked about it a bit and then the conversation changed topics and we spoke for a little while until I had to leave. On Thursday I saw her again and she came up to my friend and I and asked is to sign her passport (the little booklet we had to carry with the whole camp). On Friday morning just before we left I eventually asked her for her number. She gave it to me. So here is my question, Was it wrong of me to ask her for her number knowing she had a boyfriend? And if not what does a guy do in this situation? I didn't mention that i have never asked a girl for her number before, never been on a date or had a girlfriend. So I have absolutely no experience.
d0nnivain Posted October 12, 2015 Posted October 12, 2015 Her friend told you she had a BF. She did not. The friend may have lied, giving her the out to blow you off if that is what she wanted. When you asked for her # since she gave it to you without saying that she as a BF, I'm wondering if there really is a BF. Do call her. Mention that you don't want to step on anybody's toes. Ask if she has a BF. If she does, back off. No harm, no foul. BTW, what is hair clay? I never heard of such a thing. 1
glynnroy Posted October 12, 2015 Posted October 12, 2015 Mmmmm Well , you gotta ask , why if she has a boyfriend is she giving you Her number 1. She liked you and wants to date 2. She wants to be friends and hang out 3. It's just Sex 4. Is there a boyfriend Now I'm not sure which one it is , but you gotta ask ! I'd probably text her and say Hi it's me , how's it going , thanks for giving me your number , do you fancy hooking up tomorrow , next day ect for a catch up, or do you think it might be a issue with your boyfriend, wasn't sure if you said you had one or not ! If you'd just like to be friend s that ok , but I like the sound of you being the jam in my jammy donut much better x
Tayla Posted October 12, 2015 Posted October 12, 2015 Her friend told you she had a BF. She did not. The friend may have lied, giving her the out to blow you off if that is what she wanted. When you asked for her # since she gave it to you without saying that she as a BF, I'm wondering if there really is a BF. Do call her. Mention that you don't want to step on anybody's toes. Ask if she has a BF. If she does, back off. No harm, no foul. BTW, what is hair clay? I never heard of such a thing. Hair clay is also called Hair Molding gel, Its thicker to basically keep the hair completely stiff, or kept in a certain direction. Its a bugger to get out of the hair...Thick like molasses...(Think DippityDo only harder)
Ami1uwant Posted October 12, 2015 Posted October 12, 2015 Hair clay is also called Hair Molding gel, Its thicker to basically keep the hair completely stiff, or kept in a certain direction. Its a bugger to get out of the hair...Thick like molasses...(Think DippityDo only harder) Viagra for hair???
bubbaganoosh Posted October 12, 2015 Posted October 12, 2015 If you had a girlfriend and some guy was trying to hit on her would you like it? Look. This could have trouble written all over it so if it's me I ask her if she's seeing someone. If she is, then back off and look elsewhere. If not then fine but make sure first. It's the right thing to do and you wouldn't like it if the shoe was on the other foot.
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