Gloria25 Posted October 12, 2015 Posted October 12, 2015 Ok, if you give a guy your tel and his response is to give you his tel instead of calling and/or texting you...how would you respond? Of the few times a guy gave me his tel, I perceived it as a lack of interest. I think if a guy's interested he not only asks for your tel, but if you give it to him, his response would be to call/txt you and be like "Hi, this is John and hope you can see my tel". So, who calls/txts first now? Is the ball in my court?
Qboro90 Posted October 12, 2015 Posted October 12, 2015 A lot of times guys will give a girl their phone number because they've experienced being given the girls number and she never responds or she gives him a fake number. Some girls will give their number out just bc they're trying to be nice and feel bad rejecting or saying no to a guy and it's easier to just not respond once he calls or texts than confronting it in person. By giving you his number, he's ensuring that you are actually interested and willing to follow up. Send him a text and he should reply. 2
xcupid Posted October 12, 2015 Posted October 12, 2015 He should call first. But set it up first by encouraging him to call you. If he doesn't, NEXT. 1
Author Gloria25 Posted October 12, 2015 Author Posted October 12, 2015 A lot of times guys will give a girl their phone number because they've experienced being given the girls number and she never responds or she gives him a fake number. Some girls will give their number out just bc they're trying to be nice and feel bad rejecting or saying no to a guy and it's easier to just not respond once he calls or texts than confronting it in person. By giving you his number, he's ensuring that you are actually interested and willing to follow up. Send him a text and he should reply. ***pfft*** I gave him my number w/o asking. THAT, IMO, is demonstration of my interest. I mean yeah, some women give out fake numbers when guys ask them, but I think by me giving him my number voluntarily w/o him asking for it means I'm interested...
Author Gloria25 Posted October 12, 2015 Author Posted October 12, 2015 He should call first. But set it up first by encouraging him to call you. If he doesn't, NEXT. Yeah, I'll probably contact him first, but gonna keep my eye on more possible signs of him being "insecure". I don't have time to play games and/or deal with a guy who is insecure. Not playing that game again.
chapter44 Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 It on him. He asked, you obliged, now he should follow up.
thecrucible Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 I'd perceive it as a lack of interest too. If exchanging numbers, one of us will text the other to confirm it and so they get the other's number and this will be done in person so the guy might text me and I'll text back and say "Hey it's thecrucible" or something like that and the guy will receive it then and there and confirm that he's got my number too. I wouldn't know what to do if I gave my number and the said "no here's my number instead" haha. But then again some guys do that to ensure that the woman is actually interested. To some extent, I don't blame them.
Shining One Posted October 25, 2015 Posted October 25, 2015 Who calls first??The person that feels like it. If you want to call him, call him.
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