Cute, hot, nice chick at work I like but one issue

[MidwestUSA]

Okay, 17 in like two weeks or something but I'm younger than him too which means go after slightly younger since he was slightly older than me when he saw that chick.

 

Two weeks here, two years there.

 

You are 31, she is 16. At this current moment. Get it?

[one goal]

She's still 16 and you're way too old and I'm 100% certain not remotely as young or good looking or fit as you might think you are.

Give it a rest she's not interested and never will be.

You're creepy and should seek help.

 

Nope, I workout everyday. Run 5 miles.

[BLND]

Nope, I workout everyday. Run 5 miles.

 

Doesn't mean anything. She's still NOt interested and you're still OLD and CREEPY.

Get over it.

[MidwestUSA]

Nope, I workout everyday. Run 5 miles.

 

Yea, same here. But I don't go around insisting that I look 43.

[TaraMaiden2]

keep running. By the end of the week you should be 35 miles away.....

[xxoo]

Okay, 17 in like two weeks or something but I'm younger than him too which means go after slightly younger since he was slightly older than me when he saw that chick.

 

18 is the bottom limit of age that anyone over 20 should date.

 

Harassing a 16 year old girl could land you in jail, or worse.

[SoulCat]

OP, if you keep on doing what you're doing regarding this girl, I see a few things happening in the not to distant future:

 

- She files a harassment complaint against you at work and you lose your job

- Her dad will open a can of whoop-ass on you

- A restraining order will be filed against you.

 

All of these can have long-lasting ramifications on the rest of your life.

 

 

Take a moment to let that sink in.

[mattelipstick]

Out of curiosity, since you are strangely coy about your age, I had a look at your very first post here on LS.

 

In it you claim to be 25 - as of September 2008. That makes you 32 years old at this present time.

 

You aren't anywhere near the age group of the guys at work that she is comfortable talking with! You are out by an entire decade!

 

 

In fact, since she is still 16, you are twice her age!!

 

 

Dayumn man, can't you see how wrong your behavior is?

 

Ironically, that thread is about OP stalking another woman. Yikes.

[TaraMaiden2]

OP, if you keep on doing what you're doing regarding this girl, I see a few things happening in the not to distant future:

 

- She files a harassment complaint against you at work and you lose your job

- Her dad will open a can of whoop-ass on you

- A restraining order will be filed against you.

 

All of these can have long-lasting ramifications on the rest of your life.

 

 

Take a moment to let that sink in.

 

if it hasn't sunk in by now... with everything he's ever posted.... I doubt it ever will.

Besides, I think he just enjoys stirring the crud to get a rise out of us.

I personally have difficulty believing a single word he says....

[one goal]

I talked to her on fb a little tonight about my feelings. I mean I asked her to hangout before and that and she knows of course I like her. Here is her reply. I'm actually cool with it. She was actually direct with me. I wish all women were like this towards men instead of usually being flakey and wont give an answer. I respect her more now. Women need to be honest like this.

 

 

I appreciate what you said but I am only seventeen and I'm definitely not interested in anyone older than me sorry.

[TaraMaiden2]

I talked to her on fb a little tonight about my feelings. I mean I asked her to hangout before and that and she knows of course I like her. Here is her reply. I'm actually cool with it. She was actually direct with me. I wish all women were like this towards men instead of usually being flakey and wont give an answer. I respect her more now. Women need to be honest like this.

 

Actually, that just goes to show how very unintelligent you've been about the whole thing.

 

We've been telling you for pages how inappropriate this has been, and how in all probability she's entirely uninterested in you precisely because of the age gap.

 

The fact that you have studiously ignored all advice, opinion, counsel and input, and have only now - with a definite yet obvious rejection from her - suddenly come up with how you value HER honesty, just goes to show how dense and obtuse you have been to precisely the same message from us - men and women alike.

 

We HAVE been more than honest.

Why have you been more than 'deaf' to our responses?

[xUnknown]

32 - 16 year old!?! If she were my daughter I would already have your ass fired from the job for what you've already done. I probably would have came in there, got face to face with you and been ready to get arrested for beating your ass. You need to back off.

 

You're one creepy dude. You should quit and find another job because I can guarantee you EVERYONE at that job knows what you've been doing to this girl (stalking and harassing).

 

Lets face it. You're old enough to be her dad. This is not right in any way.

[Imported]

So you did this with a minor at the gym and a minor at your work.

 

I think you should be on the pedophile alert system, you seem to have the tendency that will eventually put you there anyway.

[xUnknown]

Did you take any advice from those that posted in your first thread back in 2008? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/164405-getting-over-celeb-obsession-crush

 

You need to talk to someone ASAP....

[LivingDeadGrl]

When I was 17 I remember thinking how old 30 year olds were. I found them gross.

When I was 15 I met a guy on the beach who was 21. We made out. Now, being 33, I look back and think what a pervert. But, even he wasn't 30+.

 

It scares me to read this thread and how you see a 17 year old as a prospect. She shouldn't even be "hot" in your eyes. She's a child, and probably very immature. You didn't take hint #1, 2 or 3. I feel bad for that girl, having to keep it polite because you two work together. Keep in mind all of her friends and close co-workers know all about it and I am sure make fun of you behind your back. I don't blame them, you're a creep. I honestly hope someone reports you one of these days.

[BeholdtheMan]

You're taking a lot of risks here just because this girl is cute. This is why I think the devil is a woman.

 

The devil is desperation

[MidwestUSA]

I talked to her on fb a little tonight about my feelings. I mean I asked her to hangout before and that and she knows of course I like her. Here is her reply. I'm actually cool with it. She was actually direct with me. I wish all women were like this towards men instead of usually being flakey and wont give an answer. I respect her more now. Women need to be honest like this.

 

You got the EXACT SAME reply from the girl at the gym?!

 

Or is this the same girl? Or you're cross posting to CYA?

[one goal]

You got the EXACT SAME reply from the girl at the gym?!

 

Or is this the same girl? Or you're cross posting to CYA?

 

No this is the girl at work. I'm done with her since she isn't interested.

[MidwestUSA]

No this is the girl at work. I'm done with her since she isn't interested.

 

 

Here is what you posted about girl at the gym. So two girls had the exact same reply to your same convo? You're done with her? Thank goodness two girls recognize what you can't.

 

 

"I talked to her on fb a little tonight about my feelings. I mean I asked her to hangout before and that and she knows of course I like her. Here is her reply. I'm actually cool with it. She was actually direct with me. I wish all women were like this towards men instead of usually being flakey and wont give an answer. I respect her more now. Women need to be honest like this.

 

 

Quote:

I appreciate what you said but I am only seventeen and I'm definitely not interested in anyone older than me sorry"

[Lois_Griffin]

I talked to her on fb a little tonight about my feelings. I mean I asked her to hangout before and that and she knows of course I like her. Here is her reply. I'm actually cool with it. She was actually direct with me. I wish all women were like this towards men instead of usually being flakey and wont give an answer. I respect her more now. Women need to be honest like this.

OP, here's the flaw in your logic. She's not a woman. She's a 16 year old teenage child.

[lil hoodlum]

I feel kinda dirty and creeped out from reading the OP posts about this young teenage girl.

 

Seriously OP, your behavior and mind set comes across as very creepy and gross.

 

I really hope you grow up soon and get a more mature mind set before you do something that gets you in some legal trouble.

[MissBee]

So I started a new job recently. Low paying and way beneath me but since I moved and needed a job I had to take anything I get until I find a full time one or go to graduate school and keep this part time.

 

 

Anyways there is this cutie I like where I work at but one minor issue lol. She's like not 18 yet. I think she's about 17 and I'm over 21 lol. I mean I look way young for my age but still she obviously knows I'm older lol.

 

 

She did add me to fb when I sent her a request the other day.

 

 

Anyways would it be creepy if I tried hitting on her and that? Could you get fired for her like only being 17 even though technically legal?

 

Personally, I'd focus on work at work and leave playing around with minors alone.

 

If you're there just to do your job, do it and be done.

 

If you have hopes for grad school and other things, it's best to find women who are at similar life stages than high school "cuties."

[Natalie8]

Refering to a child as a cute hot nice chick shows you are a creep. The fact that you sent her several messages on fb and then cornered her at work the next day is also pretty creepy.

And then you say that it would be great if all women were honest! instead of being flakey! She was not flakey. Well actually, maybe you shouldnt go for underage girls. And you shouldnt put a child into an uncomfortable position where she needs to tell you that you are being inappropriate!! You are the grown up and she is the child!

Edited November 13, 2015 by Natalie8

[Redfisher]

Not sure if this thread is real?!?!

[katiegrl]

Here is what you posted about girl at the gym. So two girls had the exact same reply to your same convo? You're done with her? Thank goodness two girls recognize what you can't.

 

 

"I talked to her on fb a little tonight about my feelings. I mean I asked her to hangout before and that and she knows of course I like her. Here is her reply. I'm actually cool with it. She was actually direct with me. I wish all women were like this towards men instead of usually being flakey and wont give an answer. I respect her more now. Women need to be honest like this.

 

 

Quote:

I appreciate what you said but I am only seventeen and I'm definitely not interested in anyone older than me sorry"

 

Hold on a sec ..... have not read the OP's history ...but Midwest, you're telling us he had the exact SAME convo with a different girl (at the gym) and she gave him the SAME exact response as the girl at work did?

 

How uncanny! Ugh.

 

If this isn't proof that the OP has been yanking our chains, that this thread isn't real, not sure what is!

 

Wow, talk about BUSTED. Jeez.

 

OP, seek therapy.