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TaraMaiden2 Established Member

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Funny today though I had a hot mom "milf" come in today with her two kids. Probably early 30s. Helped her out and she was really nice to me. On her way out she said bye too.

 

yeah, people usually do say 'bye' when they're leaving....:rolleyes:

 

Why is every woman or girl you lay eyes on either 'hot' or 'milf'...? Are they all just 'screwable material' to you?

Have you any idea whatsoever how disrespectful you actually sound?

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I brought up the relationship between my aunt and uncle as an example of a successful age gap relationship. My aunt and uncle met when she was 16 and he was 32 and they ended up getting married and were together for decades.

 

However with this situation, I'm thinking of a couple of things. You shouldn't mix business with pleasure and you shouldn't think about hitting on women at work. Don't tell yourself that you're only wanting to hang out with her as a friend. Trust me, your intentions will be transparent to her. Secondly, if a woman makes her discomfort clear, then back off for a while to give her space and just treat her in a completely neutral manner.

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Funny today though I had a hot mom "milf" come in today with her two kids. Probably early 30s. Helped her out and she was really nice to me. On her way out she said bye too.

 

Sigh, friendliness and politeness can sometime be mistaken as flirtation.

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Sigh, friendliness and politeness can sometime be mistaken as flirtation.

 

True. She seriously was very hot though. I'd say 8/10 on the scale. Very pretty.

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16, almost 17? Does her dad visit her at work sometimes?

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jam.over.jelly Established Member

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17 in a week lol.

 

I hope that fact changed your mind about hitting on her.

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16, almost 17? Does her dad visit her at work sometimes?

 

Yea he shops there. Saw them today in fact shopping lol right after she left work.

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Sorry dude you seem creepy as hell and I'm a man.

 

Agree.

 

PS - sometimes people overestimate how young they look because they aren't accepting of their own aging.

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I think if a sports player dated a 17 yr old he'd be headline on scandal.com

Youre right. Fame and looks don't make this behavior look any better.

 

James Franco got a lot of heat from fans and the press when he got caught trying to get with a teenager, legal or not. This was a year or so ago. The messages were rather creepy too

 

James Franco Apparently Tried to Hook Up With a Teenager On Instagram

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Yea he shops there. Saw them today in fact shopping lol right after she left work.

 

So, you'd feel comfortable, as a 32 year old man, approaching this fellow man and telling him that you are interested in dating his teenaged daughter?

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So, you'd feel comfortable, as a 32 year old man, approaching this fellow man and telling him that you are interested in dating his teenaged daughter?

 

If it was my daughter and the guy was over 20 he's risking a punch.

 

Also my younger cousin is like a sister to me and she's 16. Some grown ass man would be told to **** off if he asked me about her.

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So, you'd feel comfortable, as a 32 year old man, approaching this fellow man and telling him that you are interested in dating his teenaged daughter?

 

They'd get punched back then!

TaraMaiden2 Established Member

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They'd get punched back then!

 

If he knocks you down your biggest mistake would be getting up again.

 

You objectify women and view them as nothing but 'hot', 'milf' and on 'good-looking' scales.

Are you even capable of considering them as individual people in their own right, who have a right to be left alone and respected?

 

Tell me something - anything - about the 'hot' women you consider, that would tell me you don't just view them as sex objects.

 

Other than the fact you have a mother.....

 

Anything.

 

Otherwise you're just posting to get a rise out of us, and not a single word of this thread is true, because surely, nobody could be as obtuse and dense as you about this....

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So, you'd feel comfortable, as a 32 year old man, approaching this fellow man and telling him that you are interested in dating his teenaged daughter?

 

It would be funny if her parents came in my line and she told them about me while at work. Again I look too young for my age everyone at work thinks I'm like only 21 and that.

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It would be funny if her parents came in my line and she told them about me while at work. Again I look too young for my age everyone at work thinks I'm like only 21 and that.

 

 

Do you really think her dad is gonna give a rat's arse about how young you look when he knows you've been harassing his 16 year old daughter?

 

 

I think not.

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Do you really think her dad is gonna give a rat's arse about how young you look when he knows you've been harassing his 16 year old daughter?

 

 

I think not.

 

 

But he'd think I'm just a young man with a crush on a girl.

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But he'd think I'm just a young man with a crush on a girl.

 

Emphasis on man.

 

I have a teenage daughter. I'm wary of boys who have a crush on my daughter. First question: what grade is he in? If it's not 9th, 10th, 11th, or 12th, we have problems.

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But he'd think I'm just a young man with a crush on a girl.

 

 

No, he will know you are the creep who is twice his daughter's age who keeps sending her messages and behaving inappropriately towards her.

 

 

Anything else, including how young you may or may not look, is moot.

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This whole story is disgusting. To catch a predator all over again. Your behavior has stalker written all over it. No matter how much you can repeat to yourself that you look like a 21 yr old, fact is you are NOT 21.

You sound desperate, pathetic, stalkerish, borderline dangerous in the long run. Not only for this girl but women in general. Your obsession with this particular person is scary.

You are the type of person that would take any nice gesture or polite talk as an invitation from the girl/woman it's coming from.

It is rather scary and if I was a coworker of yours and witnessed how obsessed you are with this girl, I will most definitely warn her and maybe even let the police know that you represent a threat and have pedophile tendencies.

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It would be funny if her parents came in my line and she told them about me while at work. Again I look too young for my age everyone at work thinks I'm like only 21 and that.

 

It's time to look in the mirror, dude. Be honest. Compare yourself to others, whether it by Facebook pics, mugshots, or whatever. You look 31. Promise.

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They'd get punched back then!

 

Wonderful attitude. You may end up needing more help than Bobby Gassoff, rest his soul.

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This whole story is disgusting. To catch a predator all over again. Your behavior has stalker written all over it. No matter how much you can repeat to yourself that you look like a 21 yr old, fact is you are NOT 21.

You sound desperate, pathetic, stalkerish, borderline dangerous in the long run. Not only for this girl but women in general. Your obsession with this particular person is scary.

You are the type of person that would take any nice gesture or polite talk as an invitation from the girl/woman it's coming from.

It is rather scary and if I was a coworker of yours and witnessed how obsessed you are with this girl, I will most definitely warn her and maybe even let the police know that you represent a threat and have pedophile tendencies.

 

 

17 yr old isn't pedophile and is legal in many states. Now 13 yr old would be. 17 years old doesn't fit the definition of pedophile.

 

 

Those dateline episodes they pretended the girl was 13 or something, not 17.

 

 

And in college I had a guy in my class who was 33 a couple years ago and started seeing a 20 year old. They just got engaged.

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20 is not 16 since technically she's still 16. No matter how you look at it. You are OLD. You shouldn't even think for a second that she might be interested in you which is clearly not the case here. Again, she is NOT interested by you. And not to blame her, from what you ve been writing who would be??!!!

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20 is not 16 since technically she's still 16. No matter how you look at it. You are OLD. You shouldn't even think for a second that she might be interested in you which is clearly not the case here. Again, she is NOT interested by you. And not to blame her, from what you ve been writing who would be??!!!

 

Okay, 17 in like two weeks or something but I'm younger than him too which means go after slightly younger since he was slightly older than me when he saw that chick.

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She's still 16 and you're way too old and I'm 100% certain not remotely as young or good looking or fit as you might think you are.

Give it a rest she's not interested and never will be.

You're creepy and should seek help.

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