Cute, hot, nice chick at work I like but one issue

October 15, 2015

What do you mean read "between the lines?" I didn't make any suggestive stuff that I have a crush on her or liked her because of her looks since she's like 17.

When my daughter was 17 an older (27yo) co-worker wanted to be "just friends." Frankly, it didn't matter whether the guy was interested in sex or not; there's something off-putting about such a large age gap at that particular age. And, yeah, my daughter was smart enough to realise that the guy probably did want sex.

No reason to think your co-worker isn't just as astute. Honestly, you sound more than a little desperate. Is there no one your own age where you live?

October 15, 2015

How is that when I never commented about her looks and even told her I just wanted to hangout as "friends."

A guy in his late 20's/early 30's who's sniffing around 16 and 17 year old girls IS creepy. No question.

We as adults here on LS find it creepy. Teens everywhere would find it creepy and icky.

The whole 'just friends' thing?

Why on earth would you be friends and 'hang out' (yeah right, pull the other one, buddy) with someone who is still a relatively young teen? What could you possibly have in common with her?

Go hang out with people your own age, man.

October 15, 2015

A guy in his late 20's/early 30's who's sniffing around 16 and 17 year old girls IS creepy. No question.

We as adults here on LS find it creepy. Teens everywhere would find it creepy and icky.

The whole 'just friends' thing?
Why on earth would you be friends and 'hang out' (yeah right, pull the other one, buddy) with someone who is still a relatively young teen? What could you possibly have in common with her?

Go hang out with people your own age, man.

Have in common? I mean that I like her and she's really friendly and funny which I like and want to be friends with someone like that.

October 15, 2015

Have in common? I mean that I like her and she's really friendly and funny which I like and want to be friends with someone like that.

Do you think you're ever going to convince any of us that your intentions are just so pure?

October 15, 2015

Have in common? I mean that I like her and she's really friendly and funny which I like and want to be friends with someone like that.

There are 17 year old boys I know who are friendly and funny. Doesn't meant I want to hang out with them or be 'friends'.

Seriously dude, you are creeping me out and I'm nearly 40!

October 15, 2015

I would wait until she's 18. She can easily pull the statutory rape card. Here's hoping you're not a manipulative fook.

I've had people I know dated younger chicks and as a joke she had reported itnto the cops, even though he wasn't convicted, the charges are still on his criminal record. (I don't know details)

What is everyone on about? When I was 17, I made out with a 28 yearold guy. I was ALWAYS into older guys.

The difference now is I'm getting cougar instincts. Still like older guys.

She's old enough to make her own decisions.

October 15, 2015

I would wait until she's 18. She can easily pull the statutory rape card. Here's hoping you're not a manipulative fook.

I've had people I know dated younger chicks and as a joke she had reported itnto the cops, even though he wasn't convicted, the charges are still on his criminal record. (I don't know details)

What is everyone on about? When I was 17, I made out with a 28 yearold guy. I was ALWAYS into older guys.

The difference now is I'm getting cougar instincts. Still like older guys.

She's old enough to make her own decisions.

Well it seems like she has.

October 15, 2015

So today I saw her right as I was leaving and talked to her. I mentioned the FB message about asking to go hangout and she said her messenger doesn't "work right" I know she saw that particular message though because it was marked seen with the time stamp too. She look a little uneasy though and said she's too busy and doesn't have any "time" with school and work.

I was able to talk to her more after she clocked in and I mentioned I didn't mean it that way because you're younger than me. She just had a blank look on her face trying to brush it off and said it was okay.

I had to go back to the store with my mom to buy something and I walked by her on the way out and said "bye" and she just looked at me with a kind of pissy look and didn't say a word to me.

So what does this all mean? She was always polite and friendly with me before.

October 15, 2015

So today I saw her right as I was leaving and talked to her. I mentioned the FB message about asking to go hangout and she said her messenger doesn't "work right" I know she saw that particular message though because it was marked seen with the time stamp too. She look a little uneasy though and said she's too busy and doesn't have any "time" with school and work.

I was able to talk to her more after she clocked in and I mentioned I didn't mean it that way because you're younger than me. She just had a blank look on her face trying to brush it off and said it was okay.

I had to go back to the store with my mom to buy something and I walked by her on the way out and said "bye" and she just looked at me with a kind of pissy look and didn't say a word to me.

So what does this all mean? She was always polite and friendly with me before.

That means leave her alone.

October 15, 2015

So today I saw her right as I was leaving and talked to her. I mentioned the FB message about asking to go hangout and she said her messenger doesn't "work right" I know she saw that particular message though because it was marked seen with the time stamp too. She look a little uneasy though and said she's too busy and doesn't have any "time" with school and work.

I was able to talk to her more after she clocked in and I mentioned I didn't mean it that way because you're younger than me. She just had a blank look on her face trying to brush it off and said it was okay.

I had to go back to the store with my mom to buy something and I walked by her on the way out and said "bye" and she just looked at me with a kind of pissy look and didn't say a word to me.

So what does this all mean? She was always polite and friendly with me before.

It means you creep her out. You overstepped the professional boundaries of work colleagues by approaching her the way you did.

Face it buddy, she is NOT interested in hanging out or being friends with you.

Personally, I can't blame her.

You need to find people your own age to hang out with.

October 15, 2015

So today I saw her right as I was leaving and talked to her. I mentioned the FB message about asking to go hangout and she said her messenger doesn't "work right" I know she saw that particular message though because it was marked seen with the time stamp too. She look a little uneasy though and said she's too busy and doesn't have any "time" with school and work.

..."What the hell makes you think you're the kind of guy I want to hang out with?? I'm still a student, ok..?!"

I was able to talk to her more after she clocked in and I mentioned I didn't mean it that way because you're younger than me. She just had a blank look on her face trying to brush it off and said it was okay.

"I'm trying to not look completely disgusted as we have to work together, but...ugh...just let it go, fer chrissakes and leave me alone...."

I had to go back to the store with my mom to buy something and I walked by her on the way out and said "bye" and she just looked at me with a kind of pissy look and didn't say a word to me.

"God you just don't get it do you? I have zero interest in even liking you...."

So what does this all mean? She was always polite and friendly with me before.

"I was always polite and friendly before... you started acting like a creep and freakin' me out...."

Take it as read. That's what she's thinking.

October 15, 2015

It means you creep her out. You overstepped the professional boundaries of work colleagues by approaching her the way you did.

Face it buddy, she is NOT interested in hanging out or being friends with you.
Personally, I can't blame her.

You need to find people your own age to hang out with.

I have no place to meet them and internet dating is a total farce. I mean what did I have to lose? It's not like things can get any worse for me since I am at rock bottom and nowhere to meet girls so why not hit on a 17 year old. Even if the chances are .5 percent still better than no chance at all.

October 15, 2015

I have no place to meet them and internet dating is a total farce. I mean what did I have to lose? It's not like things can get any worse for me since I am at rock bottom and nowhere to meet girls so why not hit on a 17 year old. Even if the chances are .5 percent still better than no chance at all.

So all this guff about just wanting to be friends and hanging out was exactly that. Total guff.

Just what we all thought anyway. You were't convincing anyone.

And with regards to what you have to lose?

Your job if you keep approaching this girl the way you have been doing.

She could easily file a complaint against you with the HR department.

October 15, 2015

I have no place to meet them and internet dating is a total farce. I mean what did I have to lose? It's not like things can get any worse for me since I am at rock bottom and nowhere to meet girls so why not hit on a 17 year old. Even if the chances are .5 percent still better than no chance at all.

No, it is worse. At least with no chance at all, you don't get .5% humiliated and signalled that you're definitely off someone's radar because they feel freaked out.

I hate to say it, but the above post simply smacks of utter desperation....

October 15, 2015

So all this guff about just wanting to be friends and hanging out was exactly that. Total guff.

Just what we all thought anyway. You were't convincing anyone.

I think part of the clue was in the title... "cute...hot... but one issue" (her age).

Why would a simple friendship have an issue of age?

Friendships transcend ages, don't they....?

And with regards to what you have to lose?
Your job if you keep approaching this girl the way you have been doing.
She could easily file a complaint against you with the HR department.

...Not to mention girlie talk round the office...."Jeesh, that guy's a creep! He knows I'm young, but he keeps hitting on me...ugh, and he won't take the hint....he freaks me out...."

Next thing you know, you're carrying "The Office Weirdo" label....

October 15, 2015

I have no place to meet them and internet dating is a total farce. I mean what did I have to lose? It's not like things can get any worse for me since I am at rock bottom and nowhere to meet girls so why not hit on a 17 year old. Even if the chances are .5 percent still better than no chance at all.

Now this doesn't sound creepy at all .

I'm sorry but please have respect for yourself. The problem here it seems to me is that you have very low self-esteem. Women can sense that, and no way a good, decent woman would want to be with a guy with low self-esteem. I think you should work on yourself first. Your confidence will attract more people.

October 15, 2015

So all this guff about just wanting to be friends and hanging out was exactly that. Total guff.

Just what we all thought anyway. You were't convincing anyone.

And with regards to what you have to lose?
Your job if you keep approaching this girl the way you have been doing.
She could easily file a complaint against you with the HR department.

It wasn't she really does seem to be a nice girl hence why I wanted to hangout with her but everyone says on here she's too young to hangout as friends. But however what did I have to lose asking her out? I mean how could it be worse. Better than not asking and no chance at all.

She said once her birthday was coming up soon. A week away. I figured she was turning 18 so I looked on her facebook profile and actually she will be turning 17 in a week.

October 15, 2015

It wasn't she really does seem to be a nice girl hence why I wanted to hangout with her but everyone says on here she's too young to hangout as friends. But however what did I have to lose asking her out? I mean how could it be worse. Better than not asking and no chance at all.
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I politely urge you to refer back to TaraMaiden's post (#61).

October 16, 2015

You are going to fall into a hole my friend.

Do you realize what you're doing?

Not only did you send one message and she ignored it (obviously) you sent two more again ignored if that wasn't enough you bug her about it at work.

Her mistake was accepting your request.

You have made her uncomfortable because you can't take a hint.

From this point on id avoid speaking to her as much as possible as she could easily tell your employer that your advances make her uncomfortable. She is friendly and nice because she must maintain a positive work relationship with co workers.

OP your post reminded me so much of what happened to me just a few months ago I had a older married co worker man not take my hints also eventually it got to a point where he followed me home I reported it and he was fired you know what his reasoning was? That I was so nice and friendly he thought something was there.

Leave this girl alone shes only friendly to you because she wants to keep her job, duh. Before you end up fired.

October 16, 2015

You are going to fall into a hole my friend.

Do you realize what you're doing?
Not only did you send one message and she ignored it (obviously) you sent two more again ignored if that wasn't enough you bug her about it at work.

Her mistake was accepting your request.

You have made her uncomfortable because you can't take a hint.

From this point on id avoid speaking to her as much as possible as she could easily tell your employer that your advances make her uncomfortable. She is friendly and nice because she must maintain a positive work relationship with co workers.

OP your post reminded me so much of what happened to me just a few months ago I had a older married co worker man not take my hints also eventually it got to a point where he followed me home I reported it and he was fired you know what his reasoning was? That I was so nice and friendly he thought something was there.

Leave this girl alone shes only friendly to you because she wants to keep her job, duh. Before you end up fired.

Well she's friends with other coworkers and jokes around with the guys. Why can't I then?

October 16, 2015

Well she's friends with other coworkers and jokes around with the guys. Why can't I then?

How old are the other male coworkers?

October 16, 2015

Well she's friends with other coworkers and jokes around with the guys. Why can't I then?

And those guys prob havent sent her multiple fb messages and then continue it on at work. And the age difference makes the creep factor. (dont say 21 as that age means nothing since nor you or her are 21)

She can still joke with those guys because they havent done what you've done they havent crossed that boundary so shes able to joke with them comfortably. Shes not an idiot she can sense your intentions.

You've done unrepairable damage your gonna have to suck it up and maintain your distance.

I suspect the moment she feels "safe" to remove you from fb she will trust me, she just doesnt want you to confront her again for now.

Leave her alone if she picks to speak to you only speak to her then and again shes only being nice because its the thing to do at work to co workers she doesnt want contact with you.

October 16, 2015

It wasn't she really does seem to be a nice girl hence why I wanted to hangout with her.

Sheeesh who are you kidding here? Us or yourself? You don't wanna hang just because she's nice. (Is everyone else rude to you then? If not why don't you wanna hang out with them?) You wanna hang because she's nice and HOT AND CUTE and you don't just wanna hang , you obviously want more.

Just, stop kidding , OK?

And now she's clearly not interested, you can stop trying

October 16, 2015

Sheeesh who are you kidding here? Us or yourself? You don't wanna hang just because she's nice. (Is everyone else rude to you then? If not why don't you wanna hang out with them?) You wanna hang because she's nice and HOT AND CUTE and you don't just wanna hang , you obviously want more.
Just, stop kidding , OK?

And now she's clearly not interested, you can stop trying

I just wanted to hangout with a cute girl as friends. She actually turns 17 in a week. Bit younger than I thought.

October 16, 2015

I would like to see the roles reversed, older woman, younger guy.

When an older woman sees a young kid and says:

"Omg you are so cute. You are very handsome." Its ok.

If an older man says the same to a little girl (different adjectives) its crime, he is a pedophile, RAPE, RAPE!

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