heather03 Posted October 11, 2015 Posted October 11, 2015 My ex and I broke up last November because he wanted to study abroad and I didn't want to go through it another time, and also he didn't really tell me about it. We stayed in contact throughout his time there (him always initiating contact) and I knew he still had feelings for me and wanted to get back together, but I wasn't sure. When he came back we spent two weeks hanging out together, hooked up once and I stayed over a night. It was nice to be around him again but he started calling me pet names again and holding my hand and it was all going way too fast for me, so I told him I wasn't ready for a relationship right now because I had a lot going on (my last semester in college), and he was trying really hard to be back together. He told me that he didn't want to fight for me anymore and we should just be friends then, and it kind of upset me that after 2 weeks he was done. I needed more time to think things through and I was scared to be in a relationship again. He texts me every now and then, and we met up a week ago for dinner and he paid. I told him that I still had feelings for him, and he said he'll always have feelings for me too but he wasn't sure if things would work out between us. I have a really busy schedule this semester and he's going out a lot more. I miss him and think about him all the time, but I feel like he's just done with me now. Do exes come back a second time, or when they say they just want to be friends they really mean they just want to be friends and not talk anymore?
dumbass2 Posted October 12, 2015 Posted October 12, 2015 Sounds like you already tried a second time and he really wanted to try, but you weren't on the same page.
Stage5Clinger Posted October 12, 2015 Posted October 12, 2015 Do exes come back a second time, or when they say they just want to be friends they really mean they just want to be friends and not talk anymore? Sounds to me like you both like each other but you're both afraid of getting hurt! Try putting in some more energy into this and give it a chance. Don't be scared if it moves a little fast for you sometimes it's good to be swept off your feet. Let him know you're not going to break it off if his ass stays in the states 1
Author heather03 Posted October 12, 2015 Author Posted October 12, 2015 Sounds like you already tried a second time and he really wanted to try, but you weren't on the same page. I think I'm just scared of being in a relationship so fast, definitely not after 2 weeks of him coming back. He wanted to jump right into it and I wasn't ready
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